Becoming 100% in 2020
Becoming 100% in 2020 is a goal that will ensure your success!
What is your current rating?
Give some honest thought to this ...
Assign a value, which represents how you feel about yourself, on a scale of 1 to 10
We are all born with a rating of 10 ... life's experiences, disappointments, criticism, and failures have taught us that we are less than perfect. Over a period, these negative thoughts become "Learned Beliefs" and we accept them as "Truths".
If we accept that we are a failure, or are disliked by most other people, and rate ourselves as a 4, not only will we act like we are a 4, others will respond to us at that level, and will be much less likely to engage with us.
Think of people, you met recently, assign a score on a scale of 1 to 10 based on your perception of them. Compare that rating to the level of happiness, positiveness and engagement you experienced when talking to them.
If the person expressed happiness, joy or excitement it is much more likely you rated them higher, than someone who complained or made negative comments about something.
Now put yourself in the other person's shoes ... and rate yourself, from how you presented yourself to this person ... it is likely you responded in a way that is closely aligned with your perception of them. If they were happy, you likely responded in much more positive way, than if they were negative or complaining about something.
We naturally mimic other people and play back what we receive. This response mechanism is called "mirroring", and helps us to create a connection with others, with a minimum of conflict.
You may have found yourself responding as they are, instead of how you "normally" would behave. For example, you meet someone who tells a funny story, you are much more likely to respond with your own funny story, rather than something unrelated.
One of the most difficult feelings to overcome is the fear associated with rejection ... "What do people think of me", "Everyone will think I am a failure", "People will make fun of me and laugh at me if I do that".
What you are doing is pretending that you can read other peoples minds! You have no way of knowing what they are thinking ... and therefore should not waste even a second on these kinds of fears.
In all likelihood they will respond positively to your efforts, will be complimentary about your presentation and will be supportive of you.
We must stop worrying about what others think!
It is not important and most likely is False!
You will never please everyone, so don't try. If you succeed in helping 1 person out of 100, celebrate the 1, don't beat yourself up about the 99. Perhaps they were just not ready for your help.
Once you have achieved a rating of 10 or a100% level of acceptance of yourself, you will have strong self-esteem, high confidence level, and love everyone unconditionally.
You will find people automatically synchronizing with you, in a positive, confident way, setting the stage for a comfortable and rewarding engagement.
The majority of people will follow and engage with those they perceive as successful, confident and full of self-love.
The steps to achieve this level of Self Esteem ...
- Acknowledge your current limiting beliefs
- Understand these beliefs were learned, by the time you were 6 years old!
- Accept that these negative beliefs are no longer relevant in your life.
- Implement a program of Mindfulness, becoming more aware of yourself and your surroundings
- Affirm positive statements about yourself, repeating daily while meditating or using self hypnosis
- Become the best version of yourself you can image ... no limitations, no fears, no negativity, no prejudice and no jealousy.
The new you is full of love, compassion, understanding, acceptance, forgiveness and joy.
The transition can be surprisingly easy for many. Those who need assistance, due to deeply embedded negative beliefs, are usually successful, after only a few sessions with a qualified Hypnotherapist.
"Awaken Your Potential"
Allan Curtis
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I don't like the idea of starting out with 10 and working down, negative, I like the idea of starting with 00 and working up, positive. There are a lot of 10's in WA and someday I hope to be one of them. I like your Post, Allan. Best to you in 2020.
The starting at 10 is simply recognition that we are born without these negative thoughts and limitations and as young people we learn the negatives through experience!
Once you recognize this, it is an upward journey back to 10 ... it is all positive once you acknowledge and accept where you are at!
Best wishes for 2020, Ed
Allan
I kind of figured that, but I still like starting at 00, then I get more positives returns and my report card looks better. (Ha HA)
Whoa this post is amazing I really like how you put everything in this post it brightened my day and you are absolutely right about putting yourself in someone else's shoes because more than 9 times out of ten you absolutely do feel the same way or reacte with the same kind of energy or vibes that person is giving off. You are absolutely right and you should worry more about what you're doing in the moment then even think twice about how or what people think about you. Thank you for this post and have a HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Hi Carl, thanks for your feedback, I am pleased it was relevant and you found the post of interest.
People become so much happier and content, once they make this transition!
Best wishes,
Allan
Hi Mickey ... yes and you are doing a great job, your interactions on WA are indicative of your efforts. At times the achievement of 100% comes as an epiphany ... other times it just becomes the way it is ..
Best wishes for 2020 and the coming decade ... wow, where did the 2010's go!
Allan
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Many years ago, I don't want to date my self, what we now call self-esteem was referred to as "self-actualization". Meaning you have actualized the best version of yourself.
From what I remember, becoming self-actualized is a process in which we become more confident not by living to the expectations of others, all though it can lead to that in some cases, but buy successfully embracing all that we are and moving forward to build a future on our terms.
In short, another way of saying becoming 100% of yourself.
Oh yeah, we called social acceptance "social proof"---there I go dating myself again.
Thabo