Ok Maybe you might think I am a loony here, but I really believe in karma. If you send good out it will come back to you. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow but one day it will.
I am a recovering addict and alcoholic. I work a 12 step program and the 12th step is all about spreading the message and helping other addicts. It is a beautiful thing to do.
In this program we talk about "Keeping what we have by giving it away" and I can promise you that it works.
Help other people, give them a hand when you see them struggling and you will find when you are stuck help comes in abundance.
Here is another interesting thing. If you have a positive mindset you will attract positivity. If you have a negative mindset you will be unhappy and it will feel as if everything goes wrong.
So when you are positive things will be positive, but when you are negative things will just keep moving downwards.
Stay positive, have faith and help others. This will take you a long way.
I think there is nothing really wrong with it as long as the ranking chaser is genuine to help other members too. What goes around comes around :)
Wish you success again Lynne.
I know you've been through a lot in your life and I applaud you for getting out there and being fearless. All the best to you.