1 Looking for whom to blame:

Just yesterday I was watching a video of a small business owner who just lost his business due to the economic crisis write in the comments are people with a different opinion one particular commenter said it's not the pandemic that took away your business it's the government there could be a million versions of such comments some people will blame their calamities at this time on China some will blame their employers or Bill Gates while others will blame anybody else except themselves the problem with this is that you'll always be right if you set your mind to look for who to blame whoever you blame will seem like the right person to blame then this will lead you to false righteousness you'll start thinking like a victim from the time I was 17 I had to start taking responsibility for my life again this is not a perfect way of looking at life but it does bring a better result for example if you claim that your poverty is your fault that's not entirely true because you might have a very terrible bad around or maybe born into a poor country or even have some disability while taking 100% responsibility for your life is not always a perfect idea it doesn't make you stand up and fight for your life for example I still have friends who think the reason they're poor is that the government is corrupt I have stopped thinking like that for more than 16 years and as I believe I am responsible for my life I take my life extremely serious at their difficult things and live like an orphan who has nobody to depend on no matter what happens to you during this time the worst thing you can do is to look for who to blame while blaming someone else for your crisis may seem like the right thing to do it's also the easiest strategy to avoid responsibility or make progress in life.