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It's not MINE or THEIR fault you aren't successful

ProjectFrame

Published on May 24, 2015

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~Please don't take this personally if you don't feel you do this to people here in this community. At first it was nothing but kind to me, until I became what I feel is successful. I feel my voice should be heard to all mistreated in life, but especially here. YES, it happens. Even to someone like ME.

I tend to answer a lot of questions here on WA. Not just for ratings and marketing (OBVIOUSLY, HELLO) but to actually help using my back ground.

Not to just help others, but to show off HOW I can help. Rather that be my back ground, a esoteric service I can offer, or just simple encouragement.

It's sad that I have to post something so negative honestly...

First off, Don't post it if you can't handle critic or others involved.

I'm mainly posting this, because, There's a lot of grumpy old users here that are apparently set in their ways, and EXPLODE if you post your site for reference, offer help, or execute their work with or without their consent. Especially their referrals.

EVEN if I can help and keep them here paying for you.


MY BAD OKAY?!. yikes, okay, right?

This blog is for you. (YES YOU. **You= The one's who apparently don't like my cause or words and aren't old enough to ignore or use the word "delete".)

If it's not you, then kindly read, and agree if you'd like. :) Or just be warned.

I've worked very hard too and I'm sure you have, and I apologize whole heartily if me posting www.theprojectframework.com (my site for reference) to your "referral" broke your confidence for whatever reason.

Which I rarely do anyway first off. I normally post for others to look at how I've edited.

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It's obviously noted, because you obviously haven't gotten as far as you'd like here and seem to be BEGGING for attention or something; Instead of just asking or noticing what I do or can do, you criticize or shun me for a mistake I may have just honestly made. Or to anyone really.

It's called delete, and maybe a private message.

AND IF ANYTHING it's the name of the game here firstly to promote, dear you, (if you know you're one of them). And if you don't, then OH WOW, maybe that's why you feel like you're failing. I can admit, that's half the reason I pay for a membership. What else is this really worth after you've moved through the training like I have?

I am by no means better then anyone,

have been here long, or know everything, just how I assume most of you feel...but I'm nothing but a doll to anyone I talk or read too. I don't have a mean bone in my body. But the few of you on WA that back slashed me deserve to be recognized so the newcomers and people asking for help can avoid you.

In truth, it's overall not ANYONE'S fault including my own if your referral doesn't come through AGAIN after you've worked so hard. Maybe take a look at what you're doing, perhaps? Or just take it out on the "different" girl, Frame, here. That's fine, cause I can take a hit. But if you're going to be a straight up DONKEY about it, you should re-evaluate some things in life.

I'm going to tag this as a success post, because I don't want ANYONE else being frightened off by certain members that are POINT BLANK rude because you've tried to help or asked a question and it seemed wrong to them or anything you may feel wrong for.

Because you're not always wrong.

Sure maybe about something, but that's when the right person should be like "hey, it's actually like this," or "hey, I actually meant for this to be that so please don't post." I guess that's really hard for some of you. I'll make sure to do a special blessing for your well being, because that just seems unfair. Screw what you did to me, I'll still help.

You can come to me at ANY TIME for any question you may have. My sites aren't perfect, nor will ever be finished, but I have a web development and marketing back ground. I currently have three sites running, and do not need a day job anymore because of the progress I HAVE MADE. By myself, and without shooting anyone down for their mistakes in the process.

Anyone can make it here, and how to make it here. BUT not every referral (if you choose that) will come through and will do what you say. Period.

SORRY, that's life.

I might be a psychic, and don't even hate to that, but anyone should know this. I'm sorry to YOU if you feel I overwhelmed what you are trying to do, and I will avoid doing the same again, but I refuse to not help those in need.

And YOU won't stop me.

Thank you to the others reading this. In a short sense, don't let anyone here at WA make you feel down or that you're not doing right (unless it was actually wrong like clicking the wrong button.) You can do anything you can possibly think of in this life.

Never let someone miserable try to gain company from you.

Good luck to you all; ONLY YOU can create YOUR success and failures.

Many blessings to you, and may you prosper here or there. Wherever. Dream big, speak loud.

XoFrame

P.S; Haters will hate.So be it. Like my mom always said, you can't please everyone, and not everyone's gonna like ya. Peace.

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