I just need to ventilate a little bit.
First of all, if you are not interested in my personal life I suggest you don't read further because I really need to just ventilate a little bit...
On one side, I am the luckiest women in the world!! I am so happy with my relationship and my beautiful daughter!!!! So grateful for all of this!
But on the other side, my life really is hard at the moment!
I won't go into detail about everything, like my physical pains and being without work for some time now (my affiliate business hasn't given me any money yet)..
There is just one thing I really need to get out of my chest...
Why are some people so bad?? Why do they pray for the good out there?? And why don't they get caught??
In september I've worked for about 3.5 weeks as a sales woman in a clothing store... I got a contract of 20 hours (the minimum I was asking for when I took the interview) on saturday... The days I needed to work, were monday; wednesday and saturday. But after I signed, my ex-employer already told me, he had decided to close mondays...
This was the first sign to me, that there was something sketchy about him.. but yeah no worries.
After that it got worse.. For my first day work, I didn't get paid but got a jeans. Colleagues told me that he doesn't pay when needed, with a lot of excuses and a lot more...
I went to the workersbond ACV and explained the situation... they explained to me that I had a few choices, or I would fight the contract because I couldn't make 20 hours a week like promissed or resign without a fight and just go on with my life.
Because of my situation (newborn daughter and house) I decided to not fight it, but just leave it like it was and resign without any regret.
After months still haven't received my papers, I had to reach out again to the workers support team. And things got set in motion, why eventually they fight the contract and asked my ex-employer to make this right.
Now he has taken a lawyer and telling a lot of lies that I just didn't come to work and that's why he had to close! And I don't have any prove this isn't true!
I know this is just a little bit info, but I didn't want to bore you with all the details. I just wanted to ventilate my frustration about these bad people in the world!! I believe I am a good person and always try to see the best in people. But when get disappointed time after time, it get's really hard to keep believing in the good!!
Thank you for letting me ventilate and I truly wish you all the best in your life!!!
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I am thinking and praying for your situation!! My husband had something similar happen.. It just stinks when people are dishonest for no good cause.. Hoping it all works out for you and your dear sweet family! pj♥
Hi Pj thanj you for your kind words.. Knowing that there are also good People out there willing to listen to the story of a stranger, gives me hope.
I am talking from experience here...
In just want to offer you some encouragement.
Life at times, often long periods, is tough and hard and we encounter people who seem to love creating tension and mischief in others lives.
All you can do is hold your head high and maintain your inner truth
The universe never gives us more than we can handle
You're in a tough time now but no matter how hard it is just remember that you will also have equal moments of great joy.
I had 2 years of the most miserable of times recently and through that period I truly doubted my ability to continue...but I did...and now things are great. Truly great
I probably wouldn't be able to appreciate how great things are now if I didn't have the terrible times to compare them
Hold strong my dear and know that great things are coming to you because you deserve them
Jason
Hi Jason, it's nice to See there are so many spiritual People here at Wa!! Thank you for taking the time and giving me your thoughts. I totally believe the same, but I'm only 28 and have had so many difficult times already.. I know I'm strong, but sometimes I wished the universe would give me a long brake, because I'm so tired.
Hé Rian, sorry this has happened. I agree with Jude, he will catch up with his karma sooner or later. That's not your problem, the universe is quite honest with returning to people what they send out.
Thank you loes! I also believe strongly in the universe, but then I have to ask myself if I deserved this? I believe I really try to leave as good as I can and don't harm anyone. But looking at my life, I've to consider the fact that karma maybe came a bit late and I was a bad person in a previous life?
Could it be that you can experience you "being good" more when there are a lot of bad people around? That the more bad people around just proves to you how good you are? And you just have to be thankful to all of them? Because they let you feel you are good? Could it be possible, as soon as you are grateful, those bad people will disappear?
Just a thought:)
I know that feeling all too well. I also try my best to treat people well and see the good in others and constantly get surprised by how these nasty people seem to get away with being bad. All I can hope is that karma will eventually bite them on their nasty behinds! Take care of yourself :)
Thank you for these kind supporting words! Exactly what I needed!
On the one side, I agree and hope that karma comes one day but even then I don't want to wish any bad to happen to any person even the bad! I can only hope, they will reconcile some day...
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Too many employers out their who just do not care or have honest work ethics, no good ever comes to them not helpful to you though I pray circumstances improve for you all