3 lessons to achieve our 2026 goals

byInternetgranny

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4 weeks ago

I came across a very interesting piece about three lessons that can really help achieve our goals and I want to share these ideas with you.

This is what tends to happen: We set a goal, feel inspired, make a plan… and then somewhere between Day 7 and Day 21, life happens. This is what may happen in my case - I may not get that blog written, not go for the intended walk, or finish a large piece of cake just because it's sitting there looking at me.

And if you are anything like me you'll then think, 'Why can't I stick to my plan?'

The problem - according to the article - and it makes sense - isn’t discipline. It's the framework of the goals.

Here are the three important distinctions:

1. Baseline vs. Peak

Design for real life, not your best days.

Most of us set goals when motivation is high — New Year’s Eve, after a great week, or right after a tough one. So we plan for our peak selves:

• “I’ll work out six days a week.”
• “I’ll cut out sugar completely.”
• “I’ll wake up at 5 a.m. every day.”

But real life isn’t lived at peak. It’s lived in the messy middle — with kids, work, tiredness, and curveballs.

The shift is simple:
Set goals around your baseline — the version of you that shows up on an average Tuesday, not your best-ever day.

So, if, when all goes well, you can manage a blog a day, don't schedule for that. Plan on writing one every other day. And you'll feel good when you achieve that and you'll want to carry on and the momentum will carry you forward.

And - ironically - you may end up writing more. If you feel good, you may write an extra blog so you have one in readiness if something unexpected happens. And that will make you feel relaxed and positive about your goal.

Lowering your minimum raises your average.
Consistency comes from a sustainable baseline, not heroic bursts.

2. Direction vs. Perfection

You don’t need certainty — you just need a direction your body agrees with.

So many people stay stuck because they’re waiting for the perfect plan, the perfect niche, the perfect moment. But clarity doesn’t come from thinking. It comes from moving.

Perfection says:
“Don’t start until you’ve figured everything out.”

Direction says:
“Start here. Adjust as you go.”

When you know the general direction you’re heading — even if the details are fuzzy — your nervous system relaxes. You’re no longer “lost”; you’re simply on the road.

Think of it like driving at night: you only see a few metres ahead, but it’s enough to keep going.

Don’t ask for the perfect destination. Ask whether you’re moving in the right direction.
That’s where momentum lives.

3. Correction vs. Self‑Judgement

Mastery isn’t about never slipping — it’s about how quickly you recover.

You will miss days. You will drift. That’s human.

The difference between progress and burnout is what you do next.

Most of us default to self‑judgement:
“See? I knew I couldn’t do this.”

But judgement doesn’t create change — it creates avoidance.

Correction, on the other hand, is calm and curious:
“What happened? What can I adjust? How do I make this easier next time?”

Masters aren’t perfect. They simply correct faster, without the drama.

Correction creates momentum. Judgement creates quicksand.

What These Three Shifts Add Up To

People don’t fail because they lack motivation.
They fail because they’re using mental models built for their peak selves, their perfectionist selves, or their self‑critical selves.

When you:

• Build from your baseline
• Move with direction, not perfection
• Correct without judgement

…everything becomes lighter, more sustainable, and far more enjoyable.

So as we plan our journey for 2026, here’s what I suggest:

Be kinder with your baseline.
Trust direction over certainty.
Correct faster and judge less.

Small shifts. Big impact. Sustainable growth.

Wishing you all the best for 2026!

Isabella

Which of these three shifts do you think would make the biggest difference for you in 2026?

I am definitely adopting the first and the second.