Body Language Tips

byHarilal3

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5 years ago

This article is based on “The Definitive Book Of Body Language By Allan+ Barbara Pease”

Charles Darwin – The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animal 1872.

What is BL ? (Body Language)

a) - 2,50,000 Facial Expression.

b) - 7,50,000 Other Expression.

1. Dressing sense, pleasing appearance, self confidence, way of communication habits, BL gives clear picture of a person.
2. Developments of Listening & Observing skills give us better understating of the persons & their messages.
3. One minute of solid laughter provides, up to 45 minutes of subsequent relaxation & change the situation.
4. Humour heals: Norman cousins –six months laughter therapy cured incurable disease.
5. Body Language is useful at any aspect of your life; be at home, be at work or anywhere.
6. Body Language - reading situation –
   Men rating 42% men, women rating 87%, they can do two or four things at a time. Mothers are always better.
7. Group with folded arms had retained 38% less than one with unfolded arms.
8. Total impact of message - 7% verbal (worlds), 38% vocal (tone of voice, mountain & voice & other sounds) and 55% non-verbal i.e. Body Language.
9. Simple handshake reveals a lot of information.
10. Hands open, showing palms up is a positive sign.
11. Pointed finger, hands and/or legs cross is a –ve sign.
12. It is important, how you looked when you said it.
13. Standing/sitting opposite is a challenge, sit by angle.
14. With shake hand, touch elbow for two seconds and repeat name to confirm.
15. A female interviewer caught a liar by his contradictory micro-gestures.
16. Synchronized message, gestures & facial expressions give best results.
17. Pupil size increases, when people see something stimulating.
18. Fearful/defensive person folds hands, crosses legs or both.
19. Palms up shows no threat, palms down shoes authority.
20. Body language reveals, it the person will say yes or no.
21. Person with Positive signs, pleasing smile on face will help.
22. Keep comfortable distance, don’t enter personal zone.
23. Respond with a nod, smile or a frown.
24. Have an animated face; make smiling a regular part of your regular drama. Make sure you flash your teeth.
25. Give the amount of eye contact that makes everyone feel comfortable. Mirror BL of others. If you give smile, you get a smile.
26. Child covers lips while telling a lie.
27. Tall person should sit while giving presentation to a person..
28. One time seeing, is worth a thousand times hearing - Chinese proverb.
29. First impression is last impression. You don’t get second chance to make first impression.
30. If you are surrounded by miserable, unhappy people, you are also likely to mirror their expressions and become depressed. Smiling and laughing faces can actually affect our nervous system better.
31. There is an old Chinese proverb that says, "A man without a smiling face must never(not) open a shop"