Help Please - I Am Concerned About Weird Behaviour (UPDATE)
Some of you may have read my post from a few days ago about me being wrongly accused of plagarising a new members content.
I had tried to reason with her and explain that I had writen the content prior to her. Yet she contined to message me with false accusations. So I blocked her.
I contacted Kyle and he said that he would prefer to let us resolve this situation ourselves but would step in if it contued to escalate.
Today it escalated!
Even though I have blocked this user, she was able to see and respond to a comment I left in the 'Need website comments' thred. Why is this? My guess is she can probably see this too.
I feel threatened and intimidated by the message she left me. I do not feel it is fair or right for other members to behave like this.
I should not have to put up with being made to feel intimidated or threatened when I come to work. This is bullying.
I hope that this stops for both of our sakes. It is time consuming, zapping my energy and effecting my productivity on my site.
Thank you for your contined support.
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Bullies like attention, don't give her any. Psychopaths like to make their victim look like the crazy one, so don't let her make you crazy.
I've dealt with both, so I know.
You are right, it is not fair to come to work and be bullied, Unfortunately these types of situations happen. She's being very subtle and passive-aggressive - she makes it so that, to the casual observer, it looks like you're overreacting.
She's clever, I'll give her that. I think I mentioned the other day, put a copyright notice on every page on your websites. Google doesn't tolerate copycats and her site will be dropped into oblivion.
I do believe if you ignore her long enough, she'll go away and look for a fresh victim. That's usually how bullies operate.
I"m a practicing Buddhist, so I believe these types of unpleasant situations give us a chance to stretch and grow spiritually. That's what keeps me from slapping people. 😉
Hi - you can only block someone from sending a PM. They can still see everything you write within WA and can post on your profile and reply to any comments or blogs.
I found this out a couple of days ago when a member blocked me in error. I left a message on his profile page to which he was able to reply.
What type of comment is that for her to leave? "I'm going to be writing something similar soon"?
I agree with Andy below in reporting it to Google. Also - is there a way to completely block her from commenting on your site in general? Maybe some type of plugin to put her in the Spam category?
Isaiah 😊
The fact is that you cannot publish content 50% or more like someone else’s. Therefore it would be impossible if you to have duplicated what she published. This makes me question whether SHE received a warning ⚠️ and then threw that on you as an accusation. Because the site automatically does this for us, we can rest assured that the content we post is fresh. If we’re getting a warning then we’re either copying over or amazingly psychically dialed into another blogger.
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Hi Catherine, I really do not think you should feel threatened or intimated by this person. Maybe I am missing something. The person seems to have found your article interesting, and would like to write something similar.
If this person does copy your content, they will be flagged and their article will not get published.
Best wishes,
Michael