The Struggle Is Real - Help For Parents With An ADHD Child

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Sometimes you wonder if you can make it through the next hour, much less the day. I understand, because the struggle is real and it is hard. I want to provide some help for parents with an ADHD child. It's not a secret, but we get so overwhelmed with teaching them to be self-controlled, self sufficient, kind, mini-adults that we forget what is most important. The loving and kind side of parenting.

Sit down! Settle down! Be quiet! Try harder! Put out more effort. You’re just being lazy. Calm down! Why do I have to yell at you?

We’ve all been there. As parents of ADHD children, this is our mantra. We repeat these words over and over again on a daily basis. Then we start to wonder….and realize….this is the only words we say to our kids. Throw in a hug, kiss and “l love you!” before bed, but at the end of the day, the only other words they hear from us is complaining, fussing, irritation, and anger. I’m embarrassed and ashamed. I hate revealing that to you about myself, but it’s the sad truth.

But the good news is, I turned it around. I try everyday to be better. To be more positive. To be more supportive and to build them up. To nurture their self-esteem instead of contributing to breaking it down. The world will do that often enough without adding on too.

Now, I pick my battles with the kids. If they don’t wash and rinse their hair perfectly, there’s always tomorrow….and it’s summer after all. If the toilet seat doesn’t get put down, I grit my teeth, and avoid their bathroom. I look for positives, like “Great job finding your shoes!”, or “I’m proud of you for being self-sufficient and getting your own fork”. When they are super busy, with lots of excess energy, I ask them to take Jaxon for a walk. And then I thank them for helping me out by taking him for a walk.

The honest truth is, they may be super busy, tons of energy, talk non-stop, can hyper-focus on what they enjoy, but can’t remember their math facts, it all has a PURPOSE. They aren’t broken. They are brilliant and they probably inherited it from you.

If you still think they are broken, let me remind you, the people below all have/had ADHD:

• Justin Timberlake - Singer, Actor, Entertainer
• Thomas Edison - Inventor
• Will Smith - Rapper, Actor, Entertainer
• Michael Phelps - Olympian - most decorated Olympian in history
• Abraham Lincoln - US President
• Agatha Christie - Author
• Albert Einstein - Physicist
• Bill Gates - Founder of Microsoft
• Frank Lloyd Wright - Architect
• Henry Ford - Founder of Ford Motor Company
• Mark Twain - author
• Michael Jordan - professional Basketball player
• Richard Branson - Founder of Virgin Records
• Robert Frost - Poet
• Vincent Van Gogh - Artist

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