WA MEMBERS HATE ME.
Hi everyone.
Im here to apologise to all of you!
I have already written this, but when I tried to pubish, my bleep bleep internet conection died, groan.
A few weeks ago, I asked my fellow WA members to go and give up your precious time free of charge and critique my site zoubt.com. There in lies my problem. I thought that I was doing so well, that the comments were going to be nothing short of total adoration! What was I thinking? Instead of taking it on the chin, and LISTENING and LEARNING. I went of on a tangent blaming eveyone for my lack of knowledge!
When I started writing, even though I was advised by everyone here to concentrate on my grammer and spelling in order to project a professional polished website. I thought that I knew better! What did WA know about what I was doing? I was in fact being stubborn and lazy! I proptly discarded the honest opinions of all my fellow members who's only intention was to help me succeed. Here I was blaming everyone and anyone for my short comings. As I write this blog, my cheeks are burning with embarrassment! !!
I AM SO SORRY GUYS!!
I think of you all as my extended family. Why do people, in a fit of denial bite the hand that feeds them? I have gone of and taken a good long hard look at myself. I know why I reacted like this. I wont bore you with the details right now. A lot of you who know me better probably know why already. But I turned my back on WEALTHY AFFILIATE AND ALL MY FELLOW MEMBERS and I'm sorry. I missed you all and I can't do this nor want to do this on my own.
I deserve a good kick up the jaxxy! Speaking of which, I have purchased a new domain Allaboutcrohnsdisease.com ( through jaxxy which was sooooo easy, by the way! ) there isn't much there yet as I am doing what I should have done day one! And that's working on my spelling and grammer first.. I have also been working in the background on new content for my new domain.
Anyway, back to you guys. I hope you will accept my sincerest apologies. I should have appreciated what you were all trying to to for me!
WEALTHY AFFILIATE and ALL YOU GUYS are the best thing that ever happend to me!
I am so glad to have found you all. I can't say that all of a sudden I am going to become a model student (I'm working on that) But we are all here with the same goals right? Oh and Sarah... The Law Of Attraction? I kind of blocked that for a while..... I'm back on the saddle, rearing to go.
Thanks guys, have a nice day. Angelsway, Judy.
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"I deserve a good kick up the jaxxy! " Excellent Line, Judy!!! LOL!!
Wish I knew this whole story, I've just met you. I'll read over your other post and see if I can pick your brain!
Great sense of humor, you make people smile. OH, and your ID name?...Love it! Seems like it suits you to a T [what does that mean, anyway...to a T?]
He He. I've never thought about the T question before. Thanks for that! Its bugging me now that I cant come up with an answer for that query He He. Im off now to see if I can find an answer lol.
I found the answer! SUITS YOU TO A T......Origin:refers to:How a jacket fit when it was tailored and you extended your arms straight out from your sides to see if the sleeves and shoulders fit well.
Dah! Makes perfect sense to me. Now that ive read it Ha Ha. Now I can sleep. How sad am I ? He He.
THANKS Judy! I knew a guy once that was really into these types of things. He spent $60 (well, he told his family he wanted it for Christmas...and got it) for a book with all kinds of folklore phrase origins. I remember "Down to brass tacks", 'Gave them the whole 9 yards' and maybe a couple others but I'd have to dig deep in the memory.
What a Great Gal, Judy. These always make sense once you find where they came from. I usually crap-out on things like LMAO, etc (even once I knew what LMAO was, I couldn't get LMHO) [laughing my as* off and laughing my head off].
Thanks again, Judy. You're on my Christmas card list for 2014!
I went to your site and I like it. I also think you "take it on the chin" quite admirably. I think anyone who is creative (which includes all people who have created a website) feel an emotional attachment to their creations. It is only natural to want the Laurel Wreath laid upon our head, when we ask for critiquing. This place is filled with great people who are willing to help, so just keep "taking it on the chin" and you will get to where you want to be. I am far less skilled than you at creating a website and would love it if you took a few swings at mine. I don't even show up in google yet. (still working on building it)
Thank you so much. Yes I will take it on the chin. Ha ha. Pride before a fall isn't worth it. WA are a great bunch of friends to . They won't see me wrong. I will have a peek at your site now. Cheers judy
Thank you much. The site is in its infancy and any suggestions will help. For instance I would love to shrink the header-don't know how.
I have not as of yet went to the site, but when I first published my sites I got a lot of the same critiques that you found. I blamed them and not me as you did and then I left WA, big mistake. You have found the words to say what I am feeling and thank you for that. I will continue to look for your words and peek in at your sites from time to time. I am hoping that you will do the same for me, don't be afraid to say what you feel because I need it and I seek it. You now have the attitude adjustment that you needed and are seeing things with fresh eyes and a new mind. You get to start your journey over, but you are armed with experience this time and it will help guide you to success.
Thank you for that. Yes I have fresh eyes now. Even though I left things run away from me. Funnily enough it never entered my head to leave WA. Its part of my life now. Thanks, I will keep in contact. Judy
Nothing hurts as much as somebody criticising your baby, but sometimes babies look like Winston Churchill and we just have to wait until they grow up. Good post to come back with Judy. nobody wishes or wished you any harm. And we've all had someone criticise something we've done on here. The more you post, the more open you are, the more likely you are to get the feedback you ask for.
The sad thing is, they're usually right.
Thank Paul. Your right! Te penny has dropped with me. I have also learned that the truth hurts sometimes. But no point in asking if you only want people to lie and stroke your ego. Better to realise what i'm doing wrong now than twelve months along the line. I'm back to learning again. Got a little lost there for a while. Thank God your not afraid to say it as it is. I need tough love. thanks again. judy
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Hi Judy!
Don't beat yourself up and don't get discouraged. Things happen, we make changes or redo something and move on. I am sure that your site is going to be great!!
I told Carson the other day, that I felt like I know just enough to be dangerous. I just hope that I don't blow my site up!!! LOL
I can't say that I am very good at all of this just yet, but I will certainly be glad to help you anyway that I can. Hang in there!
Thank you, your like a ray of sunshine! He He