Now this is the good part. Thank you first for sticking with me on this:)
Take both of your lists side by side and look at how similar they are. If you did this honestly then your I do not wants are going to be aligned with your limiting beliefs and self talk.
Most of us ,I know I have we grew up learning certain things usually unaware of it. What we learned in early life make up our self doubts and limiting beliefs now.
Growing up I heard stuff like " You will never amount to anything" You will always be a failure" stuff like that on a daily basis. We even hear it from television most of us think of it as white noise. Guess what our sub conscious is a sponge that likes to absorb all the bad and the good. When we allow the bad to overcome the good we end up with a negative mindset that becomes programmed for failure! It is the Law of Attraction . We become what we think .So if the bad is overcoming the good well...We attract what we think about.
Time to reverse how we think we are after all thanks to Wealthy Affiliate business owners and owners of our own destiny!!