I Am Not Wonder Woman, I Am The Invisible Woman

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I wrote an article a while back about feeling like Wonder Woman. I must have gotten a commission or a referral, neither of which I get very many of! I vaguely remember how good I must have felt.

Now, I am starting to feel like the Invisible Woman and I can tell you, it not a pleasant feeling.

Is Blah Blah Blah A Language?

I really am beginning to believe that Blah Blah Blah is an actual language that no one really wants to admit exists. How often do you talk to someone and they look at you with a blank look on their face. How often do you feel like no matter what you are saying, it goes in one ear and out the other? Have you ever been in a crowd of people and try to join the conversation only to have others interrupt you and talk right over you.

Yep, I am beginning to think that Blah Blah Blah is an actual language that no one understands. Or maybe I really am just the Invisible Woman!

Does Your Online Presence Go Unnoticed?

To make matters even worse, no matter how hard I try, this feeling of being invisible extends to my online presence. You spend time interacting on the social media platforms, sharing other peoples stuff, commenting, and posting your own stuff, only to be completely ignored by the people who claim to care for you the most. Do you ever feel the same, or I am the one and only Invisible Woman?

I Love Wealthy Affiliate But Hate The Ranking

To me, it is disheartening to work so hard

  • helping other people,
  • giving comments & feedback,
  • creating training that mostly goes unnoticed by many
  • welcoming new members & those upgrading to the premium membership
  • the list goes on and on and on

only to see that my rank within the community has not budged, or worse yet, escalate. I really wish that I could hid that so it wasn't a constant reminder that my efforts have gone unnoticed!

It's Time To Visit My Invisible Paradise Island!

So I am done with my rant, my pity party, what ever you want to call it. This Invisible Woman is on her way to visit her invisible paradise island, even if it is just for an hour.

Wish it could be longer but you see, I am not a quitter and I certainly ain't one to go unnoticed for very long.

Perhaps when I return, I will feel more like the Wonder Woman I once felt like and less like the Invisible Woman that I am feeling like now.




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Suzett I understand what you mean, but I believe that Kyle and Carso more mentors to take on an ever increasing role in helping the new students that are all in the thousands each week. That is why the ranking goes back up even when we are doing what we can to help out where it is allowed. Just ignore as I do the ranking here at WA, and work instead on making your website great. Then when you have accomplished many a thing for your website, and WA. Then your ranking by all the great advise will pay off. I hope this helps. For you see I get wiped out too at time, and its nice to know that you are sounding very much like me at times. Good Lu

I wasn't really referring to Kyle and Carson mentoring me. I have many great mentors within the community that help me tremendously and I will be forever grateful to them.

I think the ranking needs to be re-vamped (which I do believe may in the making). And I would prefer to see my ranking within the stats where I can see it if and when I would like to.

I Usually don't try to think about the rank because I am too busy working on one of my websites, promoting, and making money. But I do try to jump in there as much as possible to help others as well.

I feel your pain to think no one understand or care about your thoughts. And you must believe in your self that what you are doing is for you not to get people approval . But trust in your self

Thank you Lisa :)

good post good luck

Aw, Suzette. I hear you. Its a sloooow process to be noticed online. I feel your pain. I've been angsting about similar stuff.

The process is to become the invincible woman and shuck the invisible woman Suzette!!

You're right Michael! Hopfully soon I can post about feeling invincible. It certainly has a much better ring to it :)

Thanks for sharing, Suzette.

I know this sounded like a little temper tantrum but I needed to get that off my chest. I pretty sure I am not the only that has gone through this feeling.

Thanks for helping me feel less like an invisible woman :)

You are not invisible, Suzette.

Thank you for the support and encouragement my friend. I have taken it to heart and appreciate it very much.

This is why I refer to Wealth Affiliate as my happy place.

Yep.

I hope you return feeling like Supergirl/Super Woman!

I know the feeling you describe. So much effort for such little return. Sometimes it does not feel like it's worth it.

But then there are the days when a big commission hits your PayPal account. Or when finally publishing an article that took a lot of research and was harder to write than expected.

Thank you Glen, I hope so too. This feeling Sucks!

Bring it on!

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