Happy Valentines Day to you all Wealthy Affiliates!

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A dose of love to all.

I was speaking to some of my students about giving Valentine gifts to their peers and they all shouted Sir! Valentines Day is overrated. Well, my take is the Day is Underrated and has been for quite some time.

Love is no more celebrated as it used to be in the past. Our society has lost the foundation of love. There are over hundreds of dating apps that have tinted the value of intimacy and hence the value of love. Sex is now something that is shared with whoever with fear of any repercussions. Sex used to anchor the feelings of caring and loving now it is a casual act that is shared for the sake of just quick gratification of sexual desire.

I remember being told I was effectuated and I could not have a relationship with someone close to my heart. Accepting my infatuation broke the feelings of Love I had. This is the receipt of killing or rather the attempt to kill love. Just give Love a name and say it just an infatuation or say Valentines is overrated.

Sometimes we say things without knowing what we mean but just because the majority says. If we are not careful, we will destroy that which is trying to keep society alive.

Symbols and signs of hope, Life, Love, and positivism.

Life has manufactured these signs to make life worth looking forward to and ignorance has led us astray. Because we hurt we think the rest of humanity must suffer our pain so we try to make a mockery of any symbol of love. Don't give gifts, it is just a capitalist thing to take our money, Don't get married what is the point of spending the rest of your life with one person. Don't celebrate Valentine's, Christmas, Birthdays, Anniversaries!

I understand that you are broke and can not afford the celebration, or you have been dumped and are feeling sad. Let alone that you have lost a loved one to death, a disease, or even natural death. It is hard dealing with the pain but hate does not help! Turning against these institutions and symbols of love does not heal your heart but. Pull more people from the hope of love and an opportunity to heal and find love again.

It just spread the anger and the pain. Prolongs pain and some people might not even recover because they listened to your hurt - talking bad about Being in Love, married, or celebrating Valentines. I am not insensitive and not just because I say so. I have been on the other side and I remember talking bad About love, Valentines even my birthday. Only because I was hurting and it made me feel better about myself. I was not helping anyone.

I realized that I had influence over many people and they were all following my lead. And it was not a good example. It took a while but when you find a way to heal you stop the bitterness. But the damage you have done could be irreparable.

Don't worry be happy! The power of attraction.

I recently read a blog about this and it is so true. If you wallow in this pain and have everything that you remain in that state instead use the available symbols and social contract to help you towards salvation. It is all meant to make you be happy and enjoy life. What if it is just a ruse!


If it does not kill you why fight it? Just have fun. You have one life why spend it pointing out the negative instead of enjoying the offerings of our already negative world with a little positivism
from your heart.

I Love you all. Happy Valentines' Day.

Ntlhane

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I agree about the sad direction so much of this world has taken. I'll always hold on to those old-fashioned values for the rest of my life too. For many years I've watched those who chose a different path, and I don't see them being happier, or in many cases, even happy. There is pain, sadness, confusion, and often a lack of security. My heart aches for them.

You are so right. Love, relationships, caring are can change this world. Nice Valentine post.

Ta!

You on point Ntlhane, I couldn't agree more.
Happy Valentines day to you and everyone at WA ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

Right back at you, Ntlhane! A thought-provoking post, indeed!

Jeff

Thank you, My Ambassador!

Ntlhane

You're very welcome, Ntlhane!

Jeff

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