5 Minutes Could Be The Difference Between SUCCESS or FAILURE

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I recall the day with ease.

Saturday 13th January 2018.

There was nothing particularly remarkable about the day.

In fact, it was a typical winter’s day.

Dark, dank, miserable, and a day best spent curled up on the couch avoiding the outdoors.

So, I decided to read a book.

Once again, nothing particularly extraordinary about that.

I’d class myself as a pretty voracious reader and will usually devour anything that’s in front of me (and I mean anything - yes I even read about Bridget Jones before she became a film).

Now, I’m not going to make a sweeping statement and say that the book in question (NOT Bridget Jones btw) completely changed my life.

However, just the mere fact that I am still following many of the principles I learned (on a daily basis) shows that it certainly had some impact on me.

So, what was the book?

No need to get excited, it’s hardly going to win the Booker Prize (well it’s written in the wrong genre for a start).

The author won’t ever be considered a Nobel Laureate.

And there are probably many, many better books written on the same subject.

Ladies and Gentleman, I present to you:

The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod

What Did I Learn From Hal and The MM?


I’d never quite got my mornings right.

I guess I’ve always been a morning person. But I would generally get out of bed, grab a coffee and stare into thin air for about half-an-hour before I decided that I should really get ready for the day ahead.

No real direction though.

I was never going to be one of those people who simply rolled out of bed, late for everything, always in a rush, and barely getting out the front door in time for whatever they were about to face that day.

However, upon reading the Miracle Morning something really sparked inside of me, and what I learned actually made a lot of sense.

I researched this phenomenon further and found that many world-class, successful people and celebrities follow many of the principles in the book.

I’m talking Oprah, Steve Jobs, Barack Obama, Richard Branson, and even Jennifer Aniston (I had to include Jen okay, she’s hot!)

Basically, the book is about creating a morning routine that sets you up for a successful day.

This is about “ME” time, working on yourself, improving and bettering yourself, and using certain personal development techniques to achieve this.

Hal speaks of the 6 S.A.V.E.R.S.

  • Silence
  • Affirmations
  • Visualization
  • Exercise
  • Reading
  • Scribing

He suggests that you wake up an hour before you normally would (oh dear) and spend 10 minutes on each of these activities.

This should be a daily morning habit.

With that said, if there’s days when you’re extremely busy, then you may need to cut down on the time.

Or if this seems like too much to start off with, once again aim for less time.

Hal even states that just spending one minute on each item can still set you up to have a fantastic day.

There’s actually far more to the book that I’m currently crediting it with, but this isn’t a book review.

I also don’t want to get into the ins-and-outs of what each one of the S.A.V.E.R.S. actually means and how they should be performed.

If you are interested then please just ask, and I’ll be happy to answer.

Additionally, from reading about all these celebrities and successful people I soon discovered that you should perhaps adapt your morning routine to suit you.

You are really looking to achieve happiness, contentment, joy, and motivate & inspire yourself for the day ahead.

So, for some people this may involve listening to music and spending 10 minutes doing some yoga.

For others, you may want to sit in the garden in silence, breathing in fresh air, while sipping your coffee, followed by reading your favourite comic book.

For me, I tried the 6 originals that Hal suggested, but I just couldn’t get my head around visualization.

For some people this will involve creating a vision board and putting up pictures of each and every thing they want to achieve in their life.

Pictures cut out of magazines - dream house, dream holiday, dream car, dream partner, $1,000,000 spread out over a table, whatever takes your fancy.

You then visualize yourself achieving these dreams every single morning.

Nope, didn’t work for me.

Anyway, back to the point and the main reason I’ve written this blog.

I’ve taken on silence (meditation), I always read first thing in the morning for at least 10-15 minutes, I love exercise, so this was nothing new, I’m still struggling with affirmations, but it turns out you should be repeating them several hundred times a day, rather than once or twice…

AND

Scribing or Journaling is now a daily habit of mine.

The 5-Minute Method Of Scribing That I Now Use

Initially, my journaling turned out to be a bit of a moan-fest.

Just getting things off my chest, things that were bothering me, making me angry, upset, etc.

This is supposed to be a good practice, but more often than not it just put me on a downer for the day.

So, I converted to writing more positive things every morning.

With that said, I have spoken about adapting the S.A.V.E.R.S. to suit YOU, and I now use a method to actually help me be more productive (and accountable) during my working day.

Ever since I joined Wealthy Affiliate and started working on my websites, I have now got into a daily habit of setting a timer for 5 minutes (before and after my working day) and asking myself some very simple questions.

5-Minute Morning Journaling:

What one thing are you most proud of achieving yesterday?

What would make today great?

What’s the first task that you’re going to start with today?

5-Minute Evening Journaling:

Name 3 AMAZING Things That Happened Today?

What Would Have Made Today Better?

Why This Works For Me


My morning 5-minute routine initially puts me in a good mood, as I’m discussing an achievement that made me proud.

By asking, “What would make today great?” I’m setting myself a target for the day.

However, I always go a little over the top, knowing that I’ll never get everything done, but it helps me to have an extremely productive day (for some of you this could have the opposite effect, seeing your day as a failure).

Finally, by knowing exactly what my first task of the day is I don’t waste any time and get straight to it.

The evening 5 minutes is about reflection, but keeping things positive.

3 AMAZING things could be:

  • I wrote half an article.
  • I read a WA member’s blog and learned something new.
  • I managed to go a day without asking Chrystopher a technical question.

Probably not AMAZING in the grand scheme of things, but a positive spin on my daily achievements.

And by asking myself what could have gone better I am taking responsibility for the things I possibly haven’t achieved in my day, but also showing myself where improvements could be made.

I’ve mentioned “adapting” a number of times.

These questions are actually an “adapted” version of journaling taken from Tools of Titans by Tim Ferris (the guy of “The 4-Hour Work Week” fame).

Final Thoughts

I’ve noticed that whenever I complete these 2 simple, 5-minute tasks I ALWAYS have a better working day.

I know whenever I don’t do this I seem to lack focus, motivation and direction.

This is what works for me.

Do you have a specific morning routine?

How do you set up your working day?

Do you reflect on your achievements at the end of the day?

As always, I’d love to hear and learn from you.

Thank You for reading.

Partha

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Awesome Partha!

This is just as good as reading Miracle Morningd in a sense since you have given us directions!

I tend to be all over the place in the morning trying to accomplish 10 things at once. I do stop about an hour after I'm awake to meditate (not everyday I confess) and it does brings things in perspective.

Journaling has never been my thing. I tried. I have a journal with some "stuff" written it in, but I never keep going. It stays on the shelf for weeks... But with your suggested three amazing things (instead of 10 like I read somewhere) it should make it easier.

Thanks for this great post! It actually made my day! 🙂

Denis

Hi Denis,

Thanks, that's really kind of you to say.

Funnily enough I'm currently reading a book about "Kaizen", which is a Japanese business philosophy about continuous improvements of working practices and personal efficiency.

It basically stakes a claim for making very small (literally tiny in some cases) changes in order to create new habits.

Basically, the human brain will typically view a large challenge as "too much effort" and will often avoid doing something because of it.

So, as an example, rather than starting a new exercise habit of 30 minutes a day, you first have to do one minute, 3 days a week, while watching TV (yep, you start off everything that small). And then gradually increase (slowly) with time.

It makes a lot of sense, and as you've said yourself, you avoided journaling because of the "10" figure you had read elsewhere, whereas 3 seems more achieveable.

I guess with the Kaizen method you'd start with just 1 minute of journaling and list 1 amazing thing.

Partha

Makes a lot of sense 🙂

I will definitely try the Kaizen method.

What's funny is that I know all of what you are talking about and learned it a while back...It was stored in a filling cabinet way deep in my brain. You just opened the drawer and took out the file!

It's weird how our brain is lazy when we don't exercise it! 🙃

LOL, I know EXACTLY what you mean Denis.

To be honest, I think we all have a wealth of knowledge stored in the brain, and yet we often completely forget that it's actually there.

Sometimes a slight nudge is all that's needed.

Nice there is a lot of evidence to support this and you explain it very well so thanks. I covered a great deal on my coach training and the principles stand I think but it is great to have a personal take like yours. As with all these things it takes a real life story to bring them alive and that is what matters. Brilliant, Phil

Hi Phil,

Funnily enough the more I read about morning routines it does seem that these 6 things are at the core of what a lot of successful people do first thing.

Perhaps not all them, but most.

I will say that it has made a huge difference to me.

Partha

It sounds like a really good book. I'll have to look at it although looking at the list, I'd say I pretty much do it all. The first 3 and R with my coffee in the am, then exercise, eat, and get to work. I write in a journal at night. Thanks for sharing this.

~Debbi

Hi Debbi,

It acually amazes me how many people follow similar principles anyway.

Even though I always knew about the "6 steps" I've never really done much more than reading and exercise.

It's definitely made a difference to me adding a few of the other things into my day.

Partha

I've been reading about different successful people who have different routines for getting up early

I know that Elon Musk checks his emails first thing in the morning and plans his day down to five minute increments at certain points - but that's just the way he's wired. I would never reach for my phone that early. I know that Mark Walhberg gets up at 2:00 am to pray, breakfast, workout, post workout meal, then golf at 7:30 am - it's inspiring, but a bit too extreme for me.

I have to find that spot somewhere in the middle that works for me. I do journal and it includes a morning mindset along with an evening journal for later - if I didn't complete a goal, I'll make it a priority for the next day.

Excellent post, Partha! 👍

Isaiah 😊


Hi Isaiah,

It seems like Elon Musk goes against the grain, but then again who are we to argue with someone so successful.

I've read countless times that avoiding your phone and emails in the morning is the way forward, although I suppose everyone has their own way of doing things.

Yes, I love reading about the routines of others, it gives me some perspective, and I'll usually "steal" something that I like.

Glad to hear about your journaling too. I can't believe it actually took me so many years to get around to it.

It's a game-changer as far as I'm concerned.

Partha

Hey everyone, hope your weekend so going well. I was hoping to get some feedback on my website, and posts. I'm really looking for constructive suggestions so don't feel like you need to be nice.

I'd really appreciate the help.
Thanks, everyone.

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