Oriental asia- fear factor or honest disinterest?

byolieben

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5 years ago

ORIENTAL ASIA- FEAR FACTOR OR HONEST DISINTEREST?

What makes anyone decides on giving up what they are comfortable with and moving into an unknown raw society and lifestyle?

• Is it a need to prove something?
• Or the pressure of not being happy with our lot

• Maybe uncertainties that lay ahead against the certainties of current situation and future is less attractive?

Can it be the fear of not taking steps to be who we really want to be, to allow us to develop

Considerations:

Taking stock of ourselves, taking the bull by the horns, pioneering! Are qualities we all aspire to achieve.

So what holds us back?

What really is the true organic reasons we don't take that step.

• Comfort zones?
• Laziness to act?
• Passion and conviction in executing our desires and wants?
• existing commitments that offers no way out,
• fewer possibilities that deems this a no! no!?

I guess all of us has our crosses to bear and skeletons in the cupboard

so what makes you a 'no goer'?

A thinker and not a 'doer'?

The argument may suggest that we are seeking safety:

be it work

Family

Finances

Maybe just no fuss situations, after all who need it, right?

I cannot compare the reason between you and me, however i can express an undefinable urge to take things and run with them given the opportunities, and an educated guess that comes into play at the decision making time!

Anyone that just take action based on gut feelings or promises really are leaving yourself open to serious misfortunes and dissatisfaction,

hence decisions as I see is comparable to being told this freshly baked lemon meringue pie is tasty and i will like it. But never having seen it, tasted it, or smell it.

The strangest thing is that some people do make these kinds of decisions being told by a good friend how good something is and proceeding to engage in it. Or that this product is ''gonna'' make you rich,

From timeshares in the 90s, cruises, holiday destination or even hotels.

Without some personal research and studies and feedback

So what and why do we seek revelation and satisfaction to our needs with travel and making a new life elsewhere from our native Comfort surroundings?

I have experienced Europe, USA and the eastern block Countries, also the west indies and Africa, most of these were via my service aboard a UK Warship.

These experiences i recall not being as exciting or holiday scenarios, but they gave me the inspiration and interest to continue and pursue other interests in the traveling and getting my feet wet [pardon the pun] traveling

I wanted to be part of and claim better awareness of the world and cultures before i was too old decrepit ready to depart this mortal coil.

More optimistically i wanted to find the uniqueness and triggers of cultural traditions where contraventions and social attitudes differ from mine and what it accustomed me.

Meet and engage in all there is to experience in our short life, don't you think?

These are the riches we all can relate and enjoy, forget the material and power struggle distractions.

Make it happen!