Feeling Down
I'm begging to get overwhelmed! I think I have been trying to cram to much details and information in my brain lately. I love the people here at Wealthy Affiliate, and help is always available. I cant seem to understand the next couple of lessons. I know I must keep plugging along. I think I need to got back, and redo my website, and probably find a new niche'.
I had some disturbing news from the Doctor office, so maybe that it all evolves around the news. My female check-up came back with we need to do some tests to make sure there is no cancer, and the nurse scared me so much. I ended up vomiting and all panicky. It doesn't help that I suffer from panic already. I have to wait two weeks before I can found out neither good or bad news. I'm trying to stay positive.
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I am not going to sit here and tell you not to feel overwhelmed. Many times Doctors and nurses are so vague which scares us as they are not always clear with answering why they want to do more tests.
In most cases, they find nothing. So put your mind to rest knowing that the law of averages are in your favor. it is always better to be safe than sorry.
So, good luck to you. If you need support while you worry and wait, you can always send a private message. I had very extensive cancer surgery about 7 months ago. I am doing very well and exercising about 45 minutes a day, plus line dancing for fun. I feel better than I have in years! I tell you this only for you to see there is always hope and that the tests will put your mind at ease. :) Good luck to you.
Thank you for your text. I'm so glad that you are doing well. Iam thinking positive now, but at first I just wanted to run and cry. My mom used to tell me everything will be ok, but she past in April. Thanks for making me feel better.
Just checking in just to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. :) H ave a nice week.
If you are feeling overwhelmed at the moment, take a break, give it a day or so and let your mind clear. You'll be better at writing if you do this anyways. I have felt this way too with my learning pace and took a short break to recharge. I went back through some of the steps and reviewed for a refresh, then tackled it again but in smaller steps with some time to think about it in between.
Try your best to stay positive through these trying times. At the moment while you are waiting for your test results, there is absolutely nothing you can do to change them, so take some deep breaths and try to do something that you fully know helps to relax your mind and brings you peace. This will help. All the best :-)
Thank you Adam. I think I will take your advice. I must take some smaller steps in WA. I think I'm trying to accomplish too much at one time. You are right nothing I can do just sit and wait it out, I will try to focus on something else. Thank You again.
Be Positive our medical feild is so advanced there is cure for any problem Above all our prayers are with you. Be sure God will be always with you.He will show only the best way for to follow.
Be strong. It's ok to take Time out from here. We will be here when you are ready to come back :-) like Jude says, concentrate on you for a little while :-)
Thanks, yes I probably will beable to concentrate better, once I take care of the problem.
Hey don't get discouraged or panicky ! You gotta prioritise things and deal with them methodically. If you have medical issues, don't stress, its a worry having to wait but you can't change that, control the controllables. So whilst its there, park it in a different part of your brain and try to ignore it for now and fill your time getting your website how you want it - make a list of what needs to be done, in what order and go for it!
Good Luck !
Thanks Helen yes it doesn't do any good to worry, cant change what is. I just hope that I worried over nothing. Thanks for the encouragement.
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Hi,
I will keep you in my prayers.
I think the overwhelming part of WA is just unfamiliarity. If you are still looking for your niche, think of something you would be able to stay with for the long hall. Perhaps even talking about your experiences with this scare or your mom's passing. This has changed you and you could be a big support to those going through it also.
You might want to go through the Keyword search lesson again and play with those keywords until you find some really good ones that fit what you want to share with people.
The monetization will come. There is a sense of urgency about what we do, but I think Kyle is helping us to see that that may be an industry based manufactured urgency and that he and WA will be here for us, and so will all the people that will want to share-in your story and what you have to give. A few questions may go unanswered, but just about everything I have asked the community has eventually been expertly and generously answered.
Stay optimistic and work hard and you will soon be learning some very important and wonderful new skills, one step at a time.
All the best.
Beth
Thank You Beth for your kind words. It would be easier to speak from my heart about losing my mom and husband. I find it so hard writing but I guess I need to stay with my own feelings or things I have been through.