Love Yourself First!

Last Update: October 10, 2021

Quote of the Day:

“ Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.” Lucille Ball

Meaning of the Quote:

When you have an opened heart, you can truly love yourself and others.

Discussion of the Quote:

Indeed, you have to love yourself first because only when you are capable of loving yourself can you love others as well. Love has to begin with you loving yourself and when you are filled with self-love then you can give and receive love from others.

Can you really love others when you can not love yourself? Also, can you give from a place of emptiness? Therefore, you have to fill yourself with love and then you can pass that love along to your family, friends and the rest of the world. So love thyself first then you can love all others.

Final Thoughts:

Above all things love yourself first and all other loves will follow. In loving yourself, your cup of love is filled and so you can operate from a place of abundance.

Loving yourself first is so important on so many levels. It helps you to be comfortable with yourself and who you are. With self-love, you have an identity and self-confidence. You can form healthy relationships with yourself and others. It helps to ground you and make you know that you're loved, worthy of all good things, you are enough and good enough in every way possible. Self-love helps you to face and overcome challenges knowing that you love yourself no matter what you are going through in life.

So yes, “You need to love yourself first before you love someone else.” You will be able to give more of something when you truly possess it.

I appreciate your time, comments and likes.

To our success

Kind regards,

Nichola

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Suzay Premium Plus
Love yourself first is like if the oxygen masks drop in airlines, you are to help yourself before you help others. If your supply is depleted, how can you help others?
If the altitude isn't reduced, this supply is intended to run out in about 10 minutes, At least attempt to be as fully conscious, responsible, and awake in loving interactions.
Self-love, the real stuff keeps you balanced in the trials of life, keeps you from running on empty!
Sometimes Love is No!, and not a wamby-pamby, wishy-washy co-dependent yes. Tough love sees when the other heart has low or no commitment, and ups the game.

Nichola is always laser-focused in these posts. You read it, it nudges you all day long! You find yourself back-burnering an inventory of "You" under a magnifying glass. Out with the old, and in with the new that actually works and is highly effective, and highly reflective of Who you were meant to be.
But isn't that the point?

A Big round of applauds for Sister Nichola! Thank you so much, Nichola, that was awesome,
Much LOVE to ALL the WAmily who read these posts, and to our hostess with the mostess, Nichola!
Suzay
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NicholaJames Premium
Hi Suzay,

Thank you for you warm and kind words! I appreciate your time and your valuable insights that you have shared. Have a fantastic Sunday! Wishing you the very best!

Kind regards,
Nichola
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Newme202 Premium
Absolutely agree, Nichola
Self- love is a significant factor in our growth, success and development
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NicholaJames Premium
Hi Simone,

Thank you! You are so right! I appreciate your time and your valuable thoughts. Have an awesome Sunday! Wishing you the very best!

Kind regards,
Nichola
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Newme202 Premium
You're welcome
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NicholaJames Premium
😀😍
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Newme202 Premium
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Zoopie Premium
Fully agree. Love and understand who you are. I am not perfect but I accept my failings and try to improve. But fundamentally I love me.
Thanks
Stephen
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NicholaJames Premium
Hi Stephen,

Thank you very much! You are absolutely right! You are welcome. Thanks for your valid contribution to this discussion! Have a fantastic Sunday! Wishing you the very best!

Kind regards,
Nichola
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JeffreyBrown Premium
If we can't love ourselves first, then how can we be expected to love others, Nichola? Excellent point!

Jeff
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NicholaJames Premium
Hi Jeff,

It is extremely difficult to make that one possible. Thank you very much! I appreciate your time and your valuable thoughts that you have shared! Have an awesome Sunday! Wishing you the very best!

Kind regards,
Nichola
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JeffreyBrown Premium
It all starts with a self reflection from ourselves, Nichola!

Jeff
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NicholaJames Premium
Absolutely! 😀😍
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JeffreyBrown Premium
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veganpatrice Premium
I totally agree. Great blog. Thank You
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NicholaJames Premium
Hi Patrice,

Thank you very much! You are welcome. I appreciate your time and very kind comment. Have an awesome Sunday! Wishing you the very best!

Kind regards,
Nichola
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