How to KNOW What YOU Want in 3 Easy Steps to Attract What You Want

Last Update: June 04, 2015

People fail to manifest what they want in their lives because they really don't know what they want or why they want it. So define those things, and you'll be ready to attract those things.

  • 1. Write down 10 things on a piece of paper that you really want to have or goals you want to achieve. It could be anything. You may wonder why-it will help you to clearly specify and focus your ideas, making them more tangible for yourself.
  • 2. Then put these 10 points in the order you believe you are capable of achieving first, with little effort. Number 1 will be the simplest thing on your list, and down to 10 for those points you have a harder time believing.

It's always easier to manifest circumstances you believe in, as your subconscious may believe in something different than your conscious mind. This is why you cannot manifest the 10th item on your list, as you have to begin with the 1st and 2nd. Create a stronger belief in each step, and your subconscious will start to reflect this.

  • 3. On every point from 1 to 10, you have asked yourself, "Why do I want this in my life? and write down your answer. You can apply the question again until you reach the core "Why" of what you truly want.


People often choose to go after number 10 on the list, which easily creates a sense of doubt and conflicting feelings as it's so far away from what we believe ourselves to be capable of attracting into our life. Self-doubt will drain us and make us feel unmotivated, when instead we should focus on the number 1 on that list and simply go for that, building a stronger belief in our own inner power. The belief will grow stronger for each step, and of course, this list will be rewritten many times as your dreams and desires will change..it's a part of the process.


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I can relate to this.
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This is so true! love this post!
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Nice idea.
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Inspiration1 Premium
A wonderful thought, written very simply. The truth is that we have to accept it simply. My best wishes.
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victorfoster Premium
How true this is. I used to be bankrupt, living in an RV and enraged with my circumstances. Then I began visualizing what I wanted my life to be like so much that I believed it had already happened and only time was in the way of getting there. Literally the day I began believing that everything in my life changed like magic. Now my life just keeps getting better and better.
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MFreire Premium
I'm so very happy for you and your feelings ring true. A quote that I repeat and think when I start to doubt is, "Believing is Seeing". It helped me. Thank you for your insight and for visiting my blog.
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