More Powerful Than The Law Of Attraction

Last Update: June 07, 2019

Throughout my life, I had worked to come to terms with my past. I was verbally and emotionally bullied in Grades 3 -12. My father could be verbally and emotionally abusive as an alcoholic. My self-esteem was non-existent. My self-love... what self-love?

3 years after I graduated high school, I felt like an absolute failure and I became depressed and I wanted to end my life. What was the point of going on?

I was trapped in what I can only describe as a black abyss. I could not find my way out. Life seemed darker with each passing day. I knew how I would end my life so it would look like an accident.

Then one day, I was imagining that I was at my own funeral from the perspective of looking up from my grave as my family in tears was gathered around paying their last respects and it shook me to my core!

I can't possibly cause them that pain. Not the ones who do love me!

It was like waking up from a nightmare. The abyss was gone. I was free!

Life went on.

The not so secret film and book, The Secret were released in 2006.

I say not so secret because that information first appeared in the 1880s and was well written about in the early 1900's.

What is the Law of Attraction?

According to Wikipedia, the Law of Attraction is the belief that positive or negative thoughts bring positive or negative experiences into a person's life.

I've read those early books and I have reprinted many of them as well. So that is how I came to learn about LOA Law of Attraction.

In 2010, I started training to become a Life Coach and I found myself using all the knowledge and skills to heal my past and present wounds. I found compassion for those who had caused me to suffer so. More important than that, I finally learned how to love myself unconditionally. What amazing changes were taking place within me.

Fast forward to today and I no longer believe in LOA. I believe in something more powerful than that.

I do not need to attract Love, because I AM LOVE.

I do not need to attract Abundance, because I AM ABUNDANCE.

I do not need to attract Life, because I AM LIFE.

I do not need to attract Happiness, because I AM HAPPINESS.

We have unlimited capacity with all of this. So we don't need to look OUT THERE for what is already INSIDE of us.

Why don't we see it? We don't see it, because we get all wrapped up in being a vulnerable human being surrounded by an often not so friendly universe.

The reality (in my opinion) is that we are Spiritual Beings living a Human Experience and we have forgotten our true essence.

NOTE: I am not trying to make this about religion, but a belief system that better serves me and empowers me to be the best that I can be, to serve others with compassion and love unconditionally. We are all One. We are all the same Race, the Human Race.

With that kind of mindset, I do not need to doubt what my results will be following Wealthy Affiliates specific, how to training to build our successful businesses and you don't need to doubt either. Ignore that voice in your head. It really lacks any authority at all so why listen to it?

If you knew without a shadow of doubt that in the future you would have the successful outcome that you desire if only you did the necessary work first, would you hesitate to get started or to keep going? I think not!

For me, it's not even about the $$$. It's about the lives that I can touch and how that will impact others and how my Love will continue to ripple through space and time forever!

Pretty powerful stuff! Or you can just put me in my padded cell now. hahahaha

We fear success, because we don't believe in ourselves.

We fear finding love, because we don't love ourselves, but WE ARE LOVE!

I know I should write a book some day. There is too much to put into a blog post, but I believe it with all my being.

Find that greatness that is within YOU!

Nothing can stop you from achieving your smallest to the greatest dreams, but you! Set yourself free. Start loving yourself unconditionally and without judgment.

I hope you can understand the message I am trying to convey here and I hope it inspires you to be your best self and may you find Success in EVERY area of your Life including Wealthy Affiliate.

To Your Success!

Mel

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Danieldrew Premium
This is great. I have had some dark times the last 12-18 months. never have I questioned myself and my existence so much. but its at this point when we realise who we truly are and how powerful we really can be.
without the darkness we never truly appreciate the light...

thanks for this post really needed to read this today :)

blessings from the UK
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Daniel!

Be strong.

Mel
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KwesiA1 Premium
Many thanks for your blog post about the Law of Attraction, Mel. it is very inspirational, concise and hits the nail on the head.
I very much hope more members of WA will spot it and read it. From personal experience, I know it's so true!

Thanks again, and bless you. XX
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MelWaller Premium
Thank you very much Kwesi!

Mel
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brendacsnv Premium
This is without a doubt a very powerful and inspirational post, Mel! What truly resonated with me most was your message that "... we don't need to look OUT THERE for what is already INSIDE of us." I truly believe we are all powerful co-creators of our reality, and our reality simply reflects our inner one, shaped by our thoughts, belief systems, and subconscious patterns and habits. As within, so without. The notion that abundance, love, joy, and prosperity is already within us just waiting to be tapped into is very empowering!
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MelWaller Premium
I agree. Thanks for sharing Brenda!

Mel
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Jukkah Premium
Great stuff Mel! I have similar experiences in the past and have been to some very dark places in my head. Your realizations are pretty much what have helped me snap out of it. It's a constant battle but it really helps when you realize the world doesn't revolve around you and you are just a tiny piece of an enormous puzzle. And that you can choose to be positive, loving and compassionate towards everyone else and this will help your own suffering.

"We are all One. We are all the same Race, the Human Race." That's a great line but I would expand it to everything on this planet (and perhaps beyond). We are a part of a complex system and truly lucky to be alive. Yet we can't exist without plants, bacteria, other animals and the shelter and resources mother earth provides us. We need to respect that and show the same level of love and compassion towards everything in nature as each other.
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MelWaller Premium
Hi Jukka!

I agree completely with your 2nd paragraph. You mention bacteria and I've been reading how vital bacteria are for our own personal survival and the more the good bacteria thrive on and around our body and in our body, the healthier we will be. Fascinating stuff.

Yes, in one sense the world doesn't revolve around me and in another sense my whole world is me and how I see the universe is totally subject to my thoughts. Anyway, that is just some of my abstract thinking coming out. :-)

Suffering isn't necessary, not the mental sort.

Feel free to PM me if you ever want to chat more about that.

To Your Success!

Thanks for sharing!

Mel
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Shalei67 Premium
Absolutely fantastic article, Mel! It just validates my own beliefs that go beyond the LOA concept (though it is a great one as I've blogged about it).

So true about not aligning ourselves with the faith from within. Instead we tend to focus on the fears from outside.

Keep cranking out those inspirational posts - blessings & prosperity to you!
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Sharon, will do!

Mel
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OddHelgeH Premium
Hi Mel, I've also studied all aspects I've found so far about the Law of attraction and there are many trying to describe without understanding what it is about.

As I see it, what you believe in, is the law of attraction, as it actually works. Adding different perspectives to it like spirituality, religion and everything else, does not make it less natural. The way I see it is that people need different ways of explaining things to understand them.

Great post and I love your inspiration, thank you :-)
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Oddhelge for sharing!

Mel
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kpercival55 Premium
Amazing post Mel!
I had to read it twice to truly let it sink in, and I’ve saved it to be able to go back and read again when I need a lift.
When (not if) you write the book I will be first in line for a signed copy!
Thanks for the uplifting message.
You are awesome.
KyleAnn
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MelWaller Premium
Thank you so much KyleAnn!

Mel
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TimMurphyRN Premium
Amazing Post and a truly Inspiring read. I could not agree with you more, it is not about religion but a true Spiritual Experience. God made us in His own image, to experience all the good things.

These things are usually interrupted by our own fears, selfishness, resentments etc. BUT, when we truly believe and give our Will & our Lives to His care, does all the wonder begin to happen.

Take care mate,

Tim.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Tim!

Mel
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NicholaJames Premium
Hi Mel,

Thanks for having the courage to share your story with us and in so doing you have enlightened us about the great power we all possess. If we could harness this power within us and use it to benefit ourselves and others, we will be able to transform the world.

Thanks for sharing this inspiring post and yes, start writing your series of books!

Much success to you!

Kind regards,
Nichola
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Nichola! Will do.

Mel
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NicholaJames Premium
You are welcome!
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brileehi Premium
Absolutely fantastic post! Yes, you should write a book. You obviously want to help others perceive themselves for the great and powerful being that they are, and I think you have really figured things out. I encourage you to write and share this book, and hopefully many more after, as soon as you can. A life-changing perspective on things that can help just about everybody. You need to share this with as large an audience as possible. Great stuff. Wise and unique, and truthful in so many ways. I could go on much longer. WRITE THAT BOOK!!! Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

Brian
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Brian!

Ok, everyone has convinced me that I need to work on writing the book. :-)

Mel
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brileehi Premium
Great. I will definitely acquire a copy. Please keep me posted. You definitely need to share this as widely as possible.

Brian
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ValerieJoy Premium
An amazing story and a wonderful post, Mel.

I absolutely agree with all you say about the greatness within us. We are what we allow our minds to deliver to us. Each and everyone is in control of their own life. Think negatively and experience some form of agony. But, choose to have a positive mindset and success and happiness will be ours.

I look forward to reading more content written by you, Mel.

Valerie
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Valerie!

Mel
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BobMargroff Premium
Mel,

I cannot express how powerful the feelings and thoughts inside our own heads can be toward our own success or failures. You hit the nail on the head with this post.

My mom and dad were very good at making me and my brothers feel successful in everything we did. My mom had her own clowning and ventriliquism business doing kids' birthday parties.

My dad always believed in the entrepreneurial spirit even though he never broke free of the hourly job market. With all the side gigs he always had.

I am honoring both of them by continuing to do this and it isn't just for them...I believe like you, in helping others to find the way to break free of the hourly job cycle. And if I am successful in the process then I will eventually break free of it also.

Love the inspiration you give here. Thanks.

Bob M
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Bob!

And Thanks for sharing your story!

Mel
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Dkirk1 Premium
Great post their is power in positive thinking. Being a christan i get my strength and guidance from God. After all he made us and knows more about us than we do. That's really amazing i can't tell you how many times i didn't know which way to turn. But I've always found comfort and grace when i myself was clueless on what to do. The power of prayer is truly unbelievably anything is possible for our creator. It's really extremely humbling to ask for help or guidance and then receive it.I have always been a optimistic person. Obstacles are only a problem to overcome. I enjoy a good challenge. Hope that your goals are met and your dreams are achieved.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Dana!

Mel
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Motivated99 Premium
Hi Mel,
After waking up in a depressive state and your blog being one of the first things I have seen this morning, I feel like you wrote this for me. I am a little bit speechless at this point so I won't say anymore for now except Thank you. Thank you for addressing your pain and building strength from it because even if I am the only one (which I highly, highly doubt), you've helped me today and for that I am so grateful.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks for sharing Jade! I really appreciate it.

Mel
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Joes946 Premium
Great article as always Mel. Keep up the good work. Having a doctorate in theology, it is always tempting to go there, but I know that if I do, I will be sent to "Fiddler's Green," which one of my professors told me is 10 miles below hell!
I have found in my 60 plus years of study of religions that they can be a curse or a blessing. There is some truth in all of them.
That being said, I think it is good to do as one of your respondents said, "eat the meat and spit out the bones!"
There certainly are many "laws" in the earth. Some you may defy and some you can't, the law of gravity being one of them.
I struggled with my being on WA as well, mainly because I wasn't making money, and some of the lessons just didn't seem like something I wanted to do.
So, I made an executive decision - I decided that maybe I would just try to help people...how's that for a novel idea? I remember a mother trying to answer her child's question, "why am I here?" "To help others," the mother replied.
"Then why are the others here?" came the response.
Maybe, we're just to help others?
Again, great article - eat the meat!
Joe
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Joe!

At one time, I belonged to organized religion and it served me at the time. I will not deny that. I would tend to agree there is some truth in them all or at least the majority.

Just sharing my opinion of what is currently working for me as it could help others and in doing so help them at WA. I realize others will absolutely disagree with me and that's fine, too. I'm not here to convert anyone. Those days are definitely long past.

Thanks for sharing!

Mel
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Joes946 Premium
Me too Mel. Have a great weekend.
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TDomena Premium
You're amazing Mel! You've brought so much value and encouragement to the community. Great job with that.

I studied the law of attraction and other material in that line. I "eat the meat and spit out the bones" with all of it. I believe positive thinking helps and I agree to some extent that it can help attract positive experiences.

I think it can't take away from cause and effect. There are always going to be certain natural laws that can't be transcended merely by positive thinking or even our innate composition. Things like seasons and consequences to our decisions are going to be there.
We can even get consequences by association--it is what it is

You rubbed a lot on self-actualization and religion in the post, and those are two subjects I love. It seems like my worldview may be a little different than yours but I'm familiar and respectful of your views.

The biggest difference between my beliefs and yours is that I don't believe "I am all", I believe my Manufacturer is "all" and I was created in His likeness. He controls laws I can't and I've personally witnessed this. He created things I can't.

As a result of my worldview, my perspective is a little different. I believe that I'm powerful and others around me are too. I believe my words and thoughts have power and so I'm careful about what they are.

I believe I'm a piece to the puzzle like a body part rather than the complete body, and my community, family, friends, and Manufacturer (trying to be non-religious in my verbiage) complete the puzzle.

Rather than completing the "I am" statements you have concluding with me (I am love, I am life, etc.), I'd conclude with Him, and feel equal esteem. I haven't personally been able to create life, but I have participated in the transaction, so saying a comment like "I am life" would be a little exaggerated from my vantage point.

I think when your vantage point exaggerates your role, it can be disappointing because you'll fall short. If you are life, you should be able to create it: putting eggs to sperm, incubating, and instructing the process we often take for granted. No one can though. While your vantage point is close, it's putting too much responsibility on humankind, and none of us can uphold that level of responsibility.

We love until we're hurt, we're happy until something happens, we're abundant until a famine, then we realize, we have to tap into another realm to fill that gap--that's where the Manufacturer comes in. He created everything so he can fix it. He can change laws and reconstruct what's broken. I believe He has higher thoughts and plans for me than I could, and I take peace in His rest and plan even above my own, and that's always yielded great results when I'm obedient.

Regardless of if our views are different, I love people with varying viewpoints all the same.

Great discussion you've brought up here Mel!
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Tiffany for offering your perspective!

I totally respect other's beliefs for themselves. It's their life and their choice what they wish to believe.

Mel
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TDomena Premium
We see eye to eye. It's best to respect other's views.
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JDew1 Premium
Very true to everything mentioned. Why go looking for that love and other things when you or other individuals around you can positively effect you. It's so easy to allow situations to get the best of you and be - , but if you think + and use those situations for the greater good, you'll come out better on the other side. Very encouraging.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Justin!

Mel
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FKelso Premium
Thank you for this post. Yes, you should write a book. Your post reminds me of one I just finished writing, about this paraphrasing of Napoleon Hill's statement: Think it, believe it, watch it happen. Yes, we can get where we want if we reprogram our beliefs so that they do not hold us back.
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MelWaller Premium
Sounds good! Thanks Fran!

Mel
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Andrew-74 Premium
Hey! Get writing that book my friend, and I'll be there to buy it! You have a great talent for writing. This is a very inspiring post!

I only found the law of attraction after discovering "The Secret". It's a fascinating subject and one that I believe in as much as you. I believe our lives shape us into the people that we become. Maybe the all the negative stuff that happens to us, happens for a reason.

One thing for certain is that you have touched people with your words today.

In fact, I was just creating a new blog post and I thought I would give this article a mention!

https://makemoneyonline.zone/make-money-by-helping-people-is-that-really-possible/

Thanks Mel!

Andrew
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Andrew!

I'll keep you in mind.

Mel
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DongEito Premium
Hey Mel,

Very powerful stuff in there...however in my personal opinion the Law of Attraction is also a form Religion. No matter how the followers of it put it to be a self-employed belief system. The only difference compared to the established religious institutions is that in LOA you don't follow authorities, you made yourself the authority to your own life which is good for the motivational purpose. The thing that I don't really like about LOA is that it makes its followers like their own little gods, manifesting, meditating, and doing all of the stuff to develop what they call self "mindfulness". To me, it's a dangerous recipe to the person's spiritual being...forgetting that every human being and all living things on this planet is created by a Supreme Divine Creator called God.

Anyway, it's a nice piece of content that can inspire others! Great stuff!

All the best,
Dong
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Dong!

I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

Since posts on religion and politics are generally not permitted on WA, I have attempted to stay clear of that. :-)

Mel
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Shellback Premium
Thanks Mel, your words are very inspirational. The LOVE, FAITH, CONFIDENCE, and ABUNDANCE you speak so eloquently of has the ABILITY to leap from your post directly into RECEPTIVE minds.
Our task then, is to allow an OPEN channel for such a positive event to manifest!

Thanks Mel,

A great beginning to any day!

Regards,
Billy
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Billy,

I appreciate your feedback!

Mel
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Shellback Premium
Anytime
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MichaelMBA Premium
You are a fine man, with a deep understanding of living a satisfied life.
You are an individual and you are still attracting things.
You know that you and your Inner Being are one and there is the greatest beauty and power in that.
You also know that you do indeed interact with the outside world. As you live, you attract into your world things that are like you.
You have no doubt that the Universe gathers 'cooperative components' so you can manifest your desires and achieve your goals.
That's the true celebration of life.

Satisfaction is the new success.
Continue to enjoy your life, Mel... and make it fun for others.

Pirate Mike - Foodie Pirate
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MelWaller Premium
Thank you very much Mike!

Mle
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Alexis75 Premium
Hi Mel! I love the sentiment of your message, I found it to be both powerful and amazing.

I loved when you said that we are spiritual beings having a human experience because this is indeed a fact.

Life is truly a journey you never know what lies in the road ahead of you but you just know that you have to keep going. In life we will all have our seasons when we will go through things that will either shake us to our core or make us stronger.

I believe that our lives can be a testimony for others because you never know what someone maybe going through and sometimes you can be the mirror that others need to see.

Thank you so much for sharing your story! and yes, you should definitely write a book because your inspiration is needed in the world.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Alexis for your feedback and encouragement!

Mel
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MikeAdkins Premium
Mel - you speak of an absolute truth that not everyone can grasp. It is very powerful and all consuming. Once you start to understand and feel what you describe there is no going back, all you can then do is run with it and be amazed as the layers unfold and you become more & more aware.

This is a great reminder.
Thank You
Mike
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Mike!

Mel
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marchanna Premium
It's good that you don't believe in the so-called Law of Attraction.

Physical Laws of the Universe should have some scientific merit, after all.

It's not that it takes much to know of something better than the LOA, which doesn't work in reality.

It might seem to, which is why it is so appealing to its vocal adherents.

However, what you've identified as the most significant piece is, of course --

**mindset **

-- of which I've been speaking about at length in my blog here at WA.

There is really no need to acknowledge the LOA, although it must be skewered as necessary :)
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Twack Premium
The Universe doesn't come with a manual. Which is a shame, if it did it might shed some light on all the areas we don't understand, comprehend or even are aware of yet. Our definitions are only valid as an interpretation for us to be able to understand or pretend we do.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Marc, the Mindset Guy! ;-)

That has a ring to it.

Mel
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marchanna Premium
thanks Mel!
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marchanna Premium
Twack, when I read your words it seems you might have more to say?

Otherwise I could interpret that we shouldn't try to figure out what the manual is, not identify those parts we do understand and not reject those interpretations we know have no significant validity until some more meaningful evidence is unearthed.

If you're suggesting it's possible there is something to the LOA, I would have to agree. (but... see below).

Because science does not attempt to prove something is, what it does is try to demonstrate the unlikelihood that it is NOT something else.

For example, all experiments to determine the speed of light are designed to demonstrate the probability is vanishingly small that it is NOT 3x10^8 m/s.

At the moment, there are too many easily identified examples of when the LOA does not work as a universal principal.

This means that the probability it's wrong is NOT vanishingly small.

These deviations need to be explained with some rationale, yet what happens is LOA adherents simply ignore these problems with the idea.

This makes the LOA a faith-based principal, not a scientifically-based one.

I shouldn't carry on about this any further in Mel's space, so I'll blog/train about it over at my WA channel soon enough :)
Marc
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MelWaller Premium
It's ok Marc, another comment helps drive me to the #1 post, not that I am paying attention or anything. :-)

Mel
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marchanna Premium
cool by me then, haha! cheers Marc
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bonzo124 Premium
I like your message, Mel! I do not know if the law of attraction is real or not, but positivity can change lives.

Here is my opinion on that topic:

I believe that our desires and our fears will determine our actions.

For example, too much procrastination is a fear-based mindset. Usually, it's the fear of failure or embarrassment. A constant take-action mentality is a desire based mentality from people who really want to reach a goal.

If we eliminate fear and increase desire, we can expand our comfort zone and take action that can bring results.

Many people who teach the law of attraction give nice tips and techniques to increase desire. I use some of them. After time if our desire is too big, we may take action on the things we want.

But in my opinion, we can get the best results from building our desires and attacking our fears at the same time. The best way to attack fear is through exposure to that fear.

For example, if you are afraid of failure, go out there and fail. If you think that you may get embarrassed from an action (like writing an article or creating a video), just do the action and see what it will happen. Then, do the action again and again and again until feeling comfortable with it.

The bottom line is that if we believe we can do it and have eliminated the fears that block our way, only good things can happen. If we fail after all, we will not care about that because we will not be afraid of failure.

This is only my opinion. I hope it helps.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks for sharing Ilias!

Yes, thoughts and our thinking are very powerful forces.

The Placebo Effect is a good example of the power of thought.

Mel
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CordeliaN Premium
That was quite a message, mental health issues can rip a life apart. I see many in my line of work who are both suicidal and serial self harmers...it is a desperate and terribly sad situation.
You managing to alter your outlook has had a life changing effect.

Good on Mel,

Cordelia
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Cordelia!

Yes and thinking can play a role in that. It's a challenge for us all as everyone has been touched in some way by others who are suffering.

Mel
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AffMktgRt Premium
Great work Mel.

Thanks for sharing it with us.

Not coincidentally, in today's Gospel, John 21;15:17, Jesus asked Simon Peter three times if Peter loves him, and, upon Peter's affirmation three times in response, then Jesus gave Simon Peter thrice the command to "feed my sheep".

As such, love cannot be expressed in a void without fulfilling the Greatest Commandment.

Be its very definition, unlike slogans we see every day. love is not a spectator sport. It is an action sport in which we all are to participate.

It is truly sad often to see similarly when people would indicate or use bumper stickers saying "We Support Our Troops" but they do nothing more than that.

Similarly, when at sport events, people may place their hand over their heart and take off their hats during the national anthem but will do nothing more to really show patriotism.

The Good Samaritan took action above and beyond instead of just expressing empathy for the victim.

Blessings!
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Gabriel for sharing!

Mel
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SDiges Premium
Thanks Mel!! You are a very wise man & I really appreciate the message you give to others.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Sharon!

Mel
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SDiges Premium
You're welcome!
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SamNBobbie Premium
This is a very powerful message. If people weren't afraid to embrace their inner power, they would honestly learn to enjoy every day of life.
rlippse
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Rlippse!

Mel
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Dedo52 Premium
Hi Mel,
Great post
like you, I have been through some tough times in my life and turned to certain books and "meanings" for a way out of the mental turmoil.
It's amazing how in western culture, the emotions have been captured and set in stone.
A documentary I watched a few years back told the story of a young girl from London in the UK.

Having worked in the city for a big conglomerate, she was jetted off to a remote African village in order to experience their lives for a month.

What was really interesting (for me), is that when she was offered kindness and love from the old folk, she broke down in tears. They asked her what was the matter, and she said it was because she was so happy.
Anyway, thought I'd share a little perspective on varying belief systems, and how powerful they can become.

The point being, there is a lot of conflict going on in folks brains.
And you're just the man to help.
Keep up the good work Mel

Cordially
Dedo

P.S love your posts (don't start crying, hehe)
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Dedo!

I appreciate your feedback and the story. Thank you for sharing!

:-)

Mel
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cld111 Premium
Great post, Mel! I've been studying topics like Law of Attraction since The Secret came out, but I used it way before then (without knowing.)

I recommend people listen to Abraham (they were in the original Secret movie, and there are tons of videos on YouTube) to get a really deep understanding of how everything works together - how thoughts become things, how our emotions play a role and how that all works with LOA.

But you are right that everything comes down to feeling good, feeling love...having FUN and truly enjoying the journey of life.

Even the "bad" stuff helped put you on the path to where you are now. It's good to appreciate that too...

- Christina
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Christine!

Absolutely, there is a reason for everything.

Mel
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JKulk1 Premium
Fantastic life story Mel. I'm rapped they life is good for you now. I to was bullied as a child from years 1 to 6. Just one boy made my life a missery. It affected me emotionally for many years after that period. Luckily I had a great father who encouraged me to get past all this. All the best my friend
Jim
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks for sharing Jim!

It was about you or I. It was all about them. They were the truly frightened and insecure ones and by bullying others they tried to feel good about themselves. Of course, that never lasts for them.

I'm happy you are doing better.

Mel
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Twack Premium
If memory serves the secret of 'The Secret' was love. Me, I'm just getting in my 'Vortex' then staying there.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Twack!

Mel
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Tirolith Premium
I have followed Napoleon Hill's books for years and they are my bible for life.
Tom.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Tom!

Mel
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SaraPoyner Premium
You read my mind and told my story too xx thank you Mel
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Sara!

Mel
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MichalB Premium
Love it Mel,

Thank You!
Mike
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Mike!

Mel
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N33 Premium
Thank you, Mel, you haven't happened to read my blog from yesterday, , WE ARE..., and it is our job to honor that what we really are and to teach that to our children.

Happy little one, who has such a father.

To your family!
Anne
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Anne!

I'll take a look.

Mel
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DBlanchard Premium
Just in time! I needed that boost this morning! I read about the LOA all the time, listen to seminars from people like Earl Nightingale and his pupil Bob Proctor, but I always seem to get into a cycle: I feel good, then better and then all of a sudden, I get down for no particular reason.

I try and stay positive but life's always throwing curve balls.

I really like the way you explained your way of seeing things: I AM!! It really is that simple if you really get to the bottom of the whole theory!

Thanks for sharing, you have "touched" my life today! 🙂
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Denis!

I appreciate the feedback!

Mel
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Swangirl Premium
Thanks Mel. I really love this post. It is inspiring and encouraging. The Law of Attraction never seems to work exactly as it is supposed to for me anyway. I know we need to be positive in order to see/find opportunities in life so I know a positive attitude is imperative for success. I think things go right for people who are positive because their mind is looking for those opportunities not because the universe drops whatever they want in their lap.

It is nice to see another perspective on LOA (or beyond) here.
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Jessica!

Mel
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BrewHappy Premium
Interesting article on why you don't need Law of Attraction.

You are the magic itself:)

Good day!
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MelWaller Premium
Thanks Chua!

Mel
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