Love is a Doing Word
Love is a doing word. It is a word that is used sometimes without thought. It comes easy for someone to say "I love you" without having a clue about who you are or the qualities you possess.
Love is a doing word, it is better to show someone that you love him than to tell the person. Love has qualities that should be emphasized if you care about someone.
Love has its own languages.
Which language do you speak?
1. Quality Time
When individuals are in love they want to spend Quality Time together. You do not have to spend a lot of money to be with your friend. There are other things to do other than going out to an expensive restaurant or to a movie.
Walking on the beach or just watching the sun set in the Eastern sky while exchanging thoughts, is a fine way to spend Quality Time with someone you care about. 2 people who want to spend time together will always find a way without 'braking the bank'.
2. Acts of Service
Today while at a function I noticed a lady coming down a flight of stairs. When she was nearing the end an elderly man got up from his seat and held out his hand to help her off the stairs. There was a brief pause but she took his hand. I am certain she is much stronger than the kind gentleman but she realized how thoughtful he was. This man enjoys doing acts of kindness for those he cares about. Acts of Service is done not just for reward but because we care about others.
3. Physical Touch
Physical Touch Is a Love Language that one has to be careful about. In today's world where touching can get you thrown into prison, one has to be certain that the relationship is solid before speaking this language.
4. Affirmation
"Talk is Cheap" but not to someone who likes compliments and heartfelt gratitude. Your friend may be thankful for a lovely present or an expensive card but he might prefer to hear you say in your own words how much you appreciate the kind deed that he did for you.
5. Receiving Gifts
There are those among us who prefer to receive than to give. No one wants to be giving always without getting anything in return.
When you are in love, Whatever the gift it is gladly received. The emphasis is not on how much the gift cost but rather on the thought of getting a gift from someone who cares about you.
You have seen the 5 Love Languages. Which one do you speak?
Luna
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Thank you Luna, for sharing the 5 love languages. We have to learn to speak them, all, unconditional. As long that we are not perfect in love, we all have one of them as our first language of love.
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Nicely said
Thanks for reading my post.