As many beliefs we've been told; as many times as society told us what we should do and how to do it, the expectations from your friends,family and teachers, ect. Its all in our head. Have you ever took a few minutes in a day to sit and meditate to feel in your heart what you what for your life. You were created to create. God created us to create the amazing life we choose to life. Start following your heart and the word of god, not your head and or the word of others.