20 Reasons To be Sure
TWENTY REASONS WHY ONLINE DATING MAY NOT BE A SAFE CHOICE:
INTRODUCTION:
Dating requires more than just meeting and falling in love with someone.
Finding the right mate can take some time, especially if you are considering online dating.
Ask your yourself this question before diving into a real relationship with an unknown person.
- What makes me think that I can find a good date online?
- Is this something I need to do, or should I consider the facts first?
DATING IS A NORMAL
There is nothing wrong with dating, but when thinking about it, whether it is in person or online, there are several factors to consider.
TURN THE NEXT PAGE AND LET'S GET STARTED
C O N T E N T S
INTRODUCTION----------------------------TWENTY REASONS WHY ONLINE DATING MAY NOT BE A SAFE CHOICE
What kind of Person are they----------------------------------------------------------1
Do they drink or smoke--------------------------------------------------------------------4
Are they truthfully not married-----------------------------------------------------------6
What is his /her family like------------------------------------------------------------------8
Do this person have a working history-------------------------------------------------10
Do they have a crimminal back ground-------------------------------------------------12
What if this person have a communiable disease------------------------------------15
What if this person is a serial killer-------------------------------------------------------18
Do they have a complex disorder----------------------------------------------------------20
CHAPTER 1
What kind of person are they?
Getting aqquiantance, and getting to know about the prospect takes time especially when starting a relationship online. It's like going gorcery shopping, yes, literally food shopping. Of course, this picking the right mate is not an easy one.__Will Continue
CHAPTER 4
Do they drink or smoke?
You may not do neither one of these, making this mistake can really lead into a disastrous relationship.____Will Continue
CHAPTER 6
Are they truthfully not married?
Don't be to anxious to fill a void. This is never a good enough reason to push youself to fast into the matter.____Will Continue
CHAPTER 8
What is their family background like?
Are there any racial or negative attitudes towards people. This is an area that you should measure and weigh carefully. You want to stay as far away from people like this.__-Will Continue
CHAPTER 10
Does this person have a work historry?
Knowing is better than not knowing. If you are looking for a man, you want to make sure that he works, because in the times we are living in, men want to be the stay at home mate. They could be a dead beat dad, lurking to find a good person to hack.___Will Continue
CCHAPTER 12
Do they have a crimminal background?
look at statistics, How many times have you heard about innocent people go out blinded fold and end up in a diastrous situation. ___Will Continue
CHAPTER 15
What if this person have some kind of communiable disease?
This could be someone that are trying to lurk ther way into your life to cause more harm than good.____Will Continue
CHAPTER 18
What if this person is a serial killer or some sort?
There are so many unknowns hiding behind the world wide internet to do their dirty work. People are not truthful today, most will tell allsorts of little lies, to enter, just don't be to volunable to let then in.____Will Continue
CHAPTER 20
Do they have a complex disorder?
You have all sorts of people out there, living with all sorts of mental, emotional post-
dramatic stress, depression, and other types of behaviors, so you just don't know what you will get if you go out blind and don't do your home work.____Will Continue
THESE ARE THE QUESTIONS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN DECIDING ON MAKING A DECISION ABOUT ONLINE DATING.
1. Who?____________Am I looking for?
2. What?____________Do I expect out of it?
3. When?____________Is the best time to start online dating?
4. Where?___________To start looking?
5. Why?______________Am I looking Online?
These are basis questions, you should put into perspective before even considering making this decision.
I must say, humans are relatively, imperfect from the start, and we fail to see the reality of the pitfalls before it happen.
CONCLUSION:
My take about the subject of online dating behind the scene just don't set it easy for me. This information is for adults and young children. So many children are online, and heaven knows what goes on behind the screen.
Young children think that this is way to go, a secret place to hide where nobody will ever find out. But this contrary thinking will only lead to pain and sorrow
Just remember, we are all subjects to the unknown!
Stay Tune For The Next Chapter Coming Noon!
Louisa B
Recent Comments
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Offline dating has also risks. But I agree, the risks are smaller as you can see, talk to and observe the other person. But the questions are the same.
Although it's not for me, I'm not opposed to online dating, It seems to be the modern way for busy people to meet other busy people and to establish a connection.
However you need to find a very reputable service where the members are properly vetted out. That can immediately answer many of the questions you've posed in this post before you even meet the person. And then, yes you would be wise to still do your own background checks.
Whatever you do, after you are comfortable to meet the person after a few phone conversations, a first date meeting should be done in a highly public place, and best to be kept friendly and informal - like over coffee in a small cafe.
It is the same in real life, when you meet someone you never know the person you meet is good or bad until you know the person better even than you can be wrong. It is easier on online dating and more mysterious but I guess it is depend on the online dating company and their reputation.
If you go for free dating sides there are for sure a lot of black sheep's hiding.
For children and teens I guess you have to trust your kids to understand what they do and what they don't .
I have a few friends they do online dating and 3 of them are happily married their online date's
I guess, there are different strokes for different folks.
"What's good for the goose may not be for the gambler.'
Thanks a lot for your thoughtful reply.
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Dating is a tough thing no matter which way you go...
Absolutely True!