Finding Seeds of Equivalent Benefit
When something happens in your life - whether it is good or bad is in large part determined by how you choose to react to it.
Some people see almost everything as a bad thing and a problem.
Others look at the same situations - and they look for seeds of equivalent benefit.
In other words, they look to see how they can learn from and benefit from the current situation both now and in the future.
There are Lessons and Learning Opportunities Everywhere
But you have to be willing to look and listen and learn from them - or they will remain hidden from your eyes.
When you fail at something - that is a learning experience in most cases. Evaluate and assess the situation honestly and search for ways to do better.
Likewise, when things go very well and you achieve success - then document and remember exactly what you did so that you can repeat it and do it again and again!
Also so that you can then teach it to others who may benefit from your experiences - and who will be willing to pay you for sharing such information with them too.
Your Destiny is Up to You
Do not be jealous of the success of others.
Instead welcome it - and then ask how did they do it and how can you do the same!
Do not allow yourself to suffer from a victim mentality - otherwise a victim (of your own making) you will truly be for all of your days on earth.
You have the power and the responsibility to make your own life better - or not.
Make no mistake - it is a CHOICE...
That's why I have on my personal site " Choose Your Own Course, Build a Better Life"
No one can or will build it for you either. Not WA. Not me. Certainly not the government. Just YOU.
Now there are many people and entities that can and will help you - but even so - in the end, your own success or failure will always come back to the one you see in your own mirror - you.
Have a great day, and make it count!
Best regards,
L.D. Sewell
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Spot on L.D.
Our destiny is entirely up to us. Our choices, our decisions, and our pathway
It make no sense being jealous of anyone, especially when you can put in the work to get there and beyond
If we are not entirely happy with where we are , then the onus is on us to do something about it
Very true and you and I agree on that. Have a great day my friend!
Best regards,
L.D. Sewell
As someone wise once said; "There's an opportunity in every problem, you just have to look for it".
It's so true that we have to do the work for ourselves, no-one will do it for us.
Rick
Being in charge of our reactions is sometimes overwhelming. However, it is so true. Sami
It is indeed a never-ending challenge - and a fundamental element of life.
Have a great weekend Sami!
Best regards,
L.D. Sewell
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You're not wrong here L.D. At the end of the day, it is up to us, and us only to decide how far we want to travel in each and every direction.
Here at WA, all the training and tools we need to be successful are at our fingertips, but it is up to us to put them to good use in order to maximize our own potential!
Have a wonderful day my friend, I hope that the new office space is working out well!:-)
Thanks! I hope you have a great day also, and we are really enjoying having our office so far.
Best regards,
L.D. Sewell
Thanks my friend, I am happy to hear that everything is working out well for you there!