People Who Don't Suffer From PMS, Are More Likely To Succeed

byJozeph

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Updated 8 years ago

Hey Friends,

Yup, you read that right, and it's a proven fact: People who suffer from PMS, aka the "Poor Me Syndrome", are far less likely to succeed.

The Poor Me Syndrome

I must admit, I have a hard time being around people who are chronically afflicted by PMS. Often times they tend to blame the world "out there" for their woes, and carry a compendium of self justifying reasons around, for why their Life is failing.

In a way, PMS is a form of masochism, over time we've allowed ourselves to become stimulated by a series of painful, negative mental and emotional responses, and it has become our pleasurable "comfort zone".

In fact it's effortless, we don't need to take responsibility for our sad plight, as we've convinced our "Self", that because of conditions beyond our control, we are unable to change our life.

Self Enforcing Negative thoughts

~ I'm too old to learn, or change

~ I've always been a failure

~I wasn't loved as a child

~ I have no education

~ Why me?

I can go on, as there's an endless array of justifications we can tell our "Self", that sabotage our own personal happiness and success.

Is there a cure, a way out?

Yup, however it's no silver bullet.

Often times those afflicted with Chronic PMS, will seek to surround themselves with others who share the same poisonous venom, it's a simple Law of Attraction, like attracts like. Breaking free is often easier said than done. That said it's imperative to take distance, and break out of that sort of circle.

The moment we become aware of a negative thought pattern, becoming fully conscious and changing it to a positive thought, is the starting point. A simple example would be;

"I've always failed"

We often judge certain outcomes as failures, rather than seeing them for what they are, and what they are is Feedback. along with an inherent gift, an opportunity for growth and learning. So rather than feeling we are failures,let's ask ourselves; "What can I learn from this"?

Practice, practice, practice, then practice some more.

Practice living in a state of being Conscious.

Self Empowerment, and success demands work, and the Desire to become all we are truly meant to be. To achieve this, one has to remain conscious, aka Self Actualization, that without a doubt will lead to Manifesting what we Truly Desire.

One of the key elements for changing Self Defeatism, is remaining conscious of when negative thought processes occur, and immediately taking action. . Making a point of watching for them, taking charge and actively eliminating them . And this from the moment your feet hit the floor, to when you go back to bed at night.

In the beginning, no doubt it will be an arduous task, however sooner than you think, it will become a mental automated response to negative and destructive thought patterns.

Become your best Friend, rather than your worse enemy

Say Yes Right Now, and Take Back The Day

That's All For Now Folks :)

Later Gators

Joseph

Beirut

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