Sometimes you’ve got to let the cards fall where they may

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You ever heard that old saying about letting the cards fall where they may ?.

I have so many times in my life and to be honest that saying can be used in a variety of situations. The most common situation I've found this old saying goes well with is the times when we i was trying to hard or being over critical when they're wasn't any need in doing so. The other type of situation I've found this saying to go along with was when I've tried over and over to help people that simply had no interest in helping themselves. When that sort of thing occurs i have learned not to let it become my problem when I've done my part and they didn't hold up there end of the deal. This is not a negative post even though i have mentioned a few negative things that occur and I'm sure you've all at one time been faced with a situation like that.

The thing I wanted to touch on the most here is that even when you have the best intentions for a person in whatever kind of situation your faced with. Even though you had some negative or not so good things come your way when you know that all you were out for is the better for that particular person. The number one thing to remember is that just it's still more important to stay positive rather than to let it get you down or discourage you from lending a hand to help another person.


Here is an example of a situation i was faced with this past Saturday. It was late Saturday night i had decided to finish up an article I'd been working on for my website. I had planned to request some comments on this article when I was finished like I usually do. I went into the comment section and was reading through sevral other articles on websites to leave a comment on there articles to with the pay it forward system.I myself love using this system here at wealthy affiliate it's a great way to get comments on your website and traffic as well.The other reason I like this system is the fact that it can help you learn about so many different things and for people to help others improve there content in some areas that need improvement.

I ran across an article Saturday night and I'm not gonna say what it was about or any specific details because to save the person from embarrassment or anything like that. I could never do someone that way i like to help people if I see a mistake they made and I love for people to do the same for me you never learn anything if you don't listen to some advice. Never the less that's a whole other subject. The article I read was very hard to understand and it took a few mins of analyzing it to get what this person was trying to say.I took a few mins to read it the best I could. Over all this person had a good idea and information. I decided I would leave a comment although i hesitated sevral times. I simply told them that the idea was great and there information was good and told them i would even help them to edit and make this more readable.

I don't usually do that kind of thing but in this case I felt i needed to step in because not all people are the same. Some people would potentially make fun of or laugh at things like that but I didn't want to make the person feel bad I want to see everyone doing well and sometimes that takes the help of others. The person disapproved my comment which caused my comment approval rate to drop that I've done my best to keep at 95%. Instead of letting this discourage me or get me down im gonna do just as the old saying goes. "Let the cards fall where they may".
The moral of this whole post that I hope will help someone to stay on a positive note if faced with these kinds of situations In life. That is to be you and don't let negativity slow you down or stop you from helping others. It's so easy to fall into that kind of thing I see it happen all the time but just like the old saying goes. When things are out of your control and you've done your part that's All you can do so there's no reason to worry with the things you can't change.

Hope you all enjoyed this article i just thought I would share this with you all. Stay positive and stay well my freinds and have a wonderful day.

Alll the best ,

Jonathon









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Very true words, Jonathon!

Jeff

Thanks Jeff I appreciate it ! You doin alright jeff

You're very welcome, and yes, I'm doing okay!
Jeff

Yes, life can be like that. And yet, we keep trying!

That’s right that’s all you can do

Some people you just cannot help, but it never stops me from trying

Sometimes all one can do is their part and leave it at that!

That’s exactly right Ryan

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