Trying Not to Allow the Doubt to Win
Today, I encountered my highest level of doubt so far. I continually tried to push it from my mind as I worked on my future, but for some reason I could not make it go away.
It is really hard to take a leap of faith on yourself when you have a family to provide for. I can't help but doubt that the work I am doing will ever benefit them and I feel that I am letting them down while I chase a dream.
I keep telling myself that I deserve this chance, but this little voice in the back of my head keeps telling me that it's just a waste of time. I have been able to ignore this voice for weeks now, but today it made me listen and I have to admit the voice made sense.
The doubt has gotten under my skin and is really giving me something to think about. I don't want to give up, that is not who I am, but I am having a hard time justifying today.
So does anyone have any advice on how to ignore the doubts that are screaming at me? I could definitely use them today.
Jada
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Jada, let me assure you that you are not alone in that predicament. You are actually echoing my sentiments. I know precisely how you feel because that is exactly the same feeling that is in me right now....very confused and feeling very low.
Hopefully someone will be able to help you out. I'm going to keep a very close track of how the community is going to try and assist you, as that will also be helping me out too.
Heads up nonetheless.
Chester.
I hate that you are going through the same thing as me and wish I had some stellar advice for you.
I am trying to put it in a different perspective and just to push through.
Let me know if you need to talk.
The doubt is an obvious indicator that your on the right track.
This has proven itself or we are all most miserably deceived.
You are carrying a heavy load but know this...if doubt gets the upper hand you'll have stepped back to square one...again.
Stick with it.
Great advice, I was worried about putting this out there, but I knew that I would get some great feedback from this community.
I will never let the doubt win.
Look at the other side, the optimistic side, how much more knowledge do you have now than when you started, look at your site and what you have accomplished then dig in and take it all the way home if someone else can do it so can you. As I raised my daughter on the theory you can have any thing you want in life, but you have to go get it. No one is going to bring it to you.
My blessings
Randy
Thank you so much for your kind words. You are absolutely right about all I have accomplished and I am extremely proud of myself for what I have accomplished.
Sometimes you just need someone else to give you a little fresh perspective.
You just have to push through them and focus on what your dreams are and why you are doing this. Make this your focus and the manifestation will follow. It is hard but you can do this! What's your website and I'll check it out and make comments if you'd like feedback...Stay strong chasing your dreams!
Thanks for the encouragement. I am definitely trying to keep my head above water. I haven't allowed it to win yet, so I consider that a good sign. My website is https://relationshipfx.com and I would greatly appreciate a little feedback.
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We have all had those days and some days the voice in our heads win some battles . That's ok for today. There is tomorrow, are you still going to listen to those voices? I have a saying that I tell myself when I have similar days. "When I am sick and tried of being sick and tired I will make a change". So JM are you sick and tired yet? Were you sick and tired of working very hard for someone else and seeing them reap the benefits? I am going to say YES. So JM are you sick and tired? Because the voices are going to keep coming and when they do. Just tell them I am sick and tired of you trying to control my destiny. JM keep pushing. Cry if you have to. When you are done finish crying then get up wipe you tears and be thankful that you have found a wonderful place like Wealthy Affiliate to make all you dreams and goals come true. Tomorrow is new day and a fresh start. Go for what you know.