So Sad! My Mum Just Passed Away!

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Hello WA Family

I came back from an overseas trip on Monday night and was so shocked to hear about my mother's critical condition in hospital ...

I went to see my beloved mother on that fateful Monday night and it was very difficult for me to see her suffering and she was totally breathless... she had kidney failures and a bad heart attack.

I was very sad and terrified to see her go ... it is so sudden and very disheartening ... :(

She passed away about half an hour after seeing me ... it was as if she was "hanging on" and waiting for me ...

I certainly wish I had spent more time with my mother! Now I don't have this opportunity.

Where do I find my comfort? .:(

My friends, do spend more time with yr loved ones.




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Hi Jewel,
Sorry to hear about your loss- at least you were able to spend time with you before her passing, and also she is not suffering.

Hope that you take time for yourself right now to go through the stages of grieving, loss is never easy.

All the best during this time.
Love & Light
AK

Hi Jewel,
I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. My mother passed away almost 4 years ago, so I do know what you are going through. Don't regret the time you didn't spend with her, any time you spent with her was precious. Her memories will always be with you, through good times and bad. The love you have for her will never fade. It's hard right now, but it does get easier. The pain fades, the grief subsides, and life goes on. When it's all over, one day you will smile when you think about her, and see just how much you loved her and how much she loved you. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. Take care my friend, blessings to you.
Mary

Sorry to hear about your loss Jewel. Your beloved mother was indeed waiting for you, and you released her from the suffering she endured. May she rest in peace, and God's peace be with you.
If this can help you find comfort, my mother passed away 7 years ago in my absence and to this day I have to see her last resting place.
It is sad and painful, but you will get through it.

Dear Jewel, so sorry for your loss. Grief is related to my niche and I'm currently writing a long article on how to cope with Grief and Loss. It's one of the worst of all human emotions, intense, gut-wrenching, guilt, anger, self-blame, depression - several emotions all at once can really take its toll.

I truly believe your mother did hang on longer so she could see you before 'continuing her journey'. And that's how I prefer to see death...nothing more than a transition. But it's sad for us left behind.

It’s also sad that we only realise when we lose someone how we should have spent more time with them. But comfort and consolidation is found in knowing they forgive you, love you and will always hear your prayers and words.

I'll remember to send you a copy of my article when I've finished with it. I've chosen a soothing song especially for you.

For some reason, WA won’t allow me to post the URL link here, so go to youtube and type in....

I'll See You Again Lyrics Westlife.

So sorry to hear of your loss. Death, a necessary end, that most are not prepared for. Death in itself is peaceful Jewel, not minding seeing your mum in suffering. I want you to be comforted that DEATH is NOT annihilation, its a transition from one phase of an existence to another. The division is by man.

Hi, Jewel! I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved mother. Having gone through it with both of my parents, I understand what you are going through right now! Know that your mom now is in a much better place if that means anything to you at the moment.

You asked towards the end of your message, where you could get some comfort right now? I know that there is a huge hole in your heart at the moment. My one suggestion would be that you take the time to reflect on the wonderful memories that you have of your mother during her lifetime. I know that I still do it with my parents. Your mom will always remain in your heart!

Time will slowly heal the pain in what you are currently going through, Jewel!

Again, you have my heartfelt condolences.

Peace be with you!

Jeff

Hi Jewel. I am so sorry for your loss! It's so hard when a parent passes away. Cherish the memories and times that you DID spend with your mother. Don't focus on the what you should have done. Memories of your time together will eventually bring you peace. Take care. Alanna

Jewel,
I'm so sorry to hear this Jewel. I'm sure she was hanging on for you. I remember when my father died after a very long illness he passed shortly after seeing someone he needed closure with and hadn't seen in years. Try to remember the happy times and all of the wonderful qualities your mother has and it may help with your healing.
Hugs,
Erica

I'm so very sorry to hear this Jewel, my mother passed away in January and thankfully, like you, I got to see her before she went. As you say, she must have been waiting to see you before she went.
I hope you find comfort in knowing that she wanted to see you before she went xx

My dearest Jewel
I wish to send my love to you at this time.
Your comfort will come from her memories. Do her proud by just being the best you can be, this is all she will wish for.
Think of her with every obstacle you overcome and every achievement you make, she will be by your side.
love always

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