Today Is Still A Great Day To Learn Something New, Even Negative One Aren't Going Away My WA Family

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Today Is Still A Great Day To Learn Something New, Even Negative One Aren't Going Away My WA Family

Today not a lucky day for me; I meet one friend at our project site; I was happy as we didn't even talk for a long time. But in the middle of our conversation, I noticed his negativity about online business like Affiliate Marketing and others in Social Media. I find a way to exit from our discussion because he doesn't know what he is talking about and want to upset me. I excuse and exit as we usually learn when we encounter a person like this.

How to help ourselves to hold back to our good mindset?

Here the only thing that's holding you back is your mindset.

The first step to achieving anything is level up your mood.

Your attitude needs to match your goals and aspirations.

> Avoid negative people...check

> Avoid negative self-talk.......check

> Jump out of your comfort zone.....check

> Surround yourself with positivity.....check

The day you shift from a Fixed to a Growth mindset, you will become unstoppable.

I have a serious question for you guys, does other people's negative energy bring you down?

Maybe it's your friend, family members, or even very close friends you've grown together. When surrounded by negativity, it's easy to absorb that energy and feel negative yourself. It can drive with your mindset and make you feel draining.

The reason was sometimes so important to be around people with whom you easily connect and uplift your spirits. We all know that's not always possible, especially since we don't choose our family members and people at work or friends. They said we can always bring positivity to specific situations and not let the negativity clouded our minds. That's what I did a while ago. I run away.

Also, in this post, I'm sharing five tips for dealing with negative people, so they don't get into our heads.

Whatever it is, we can feel ourselves being affected when we're around them. I think it's normal sometimes, and without knowing, most of us tend to absorb those negative moods of whoever's around us; how do we avoid letting negative people drain our energy when we can't escape from them?

Here are some tips to help us:

A. Detach.

You do remember that the way people act has nothing to do with you. Detaching yourself from their frustrations and don't internalize them as your fault. They have their things to work through, and that's on their shoulders to deal with; it's not yours.

B. Avoid Blame.

Don't blame anyone, assume, or attacking them. You should tell "stop being so negative" usually doesn't go well and just getting worse. Showing a person the compassion you have and empathy you want them to show you and just do not let them walk all over you.

C. Behave and Respond Calmly.

You have to respond the way you would want them to talk to you. Avoid getting passive-aggressive because that doesn't help anybody. If they are gossiping or putting others down, either change the conversation or walk away.

I believe that high stress, constant anxiety over tasks, work, and life. It is all part of the modern way of life. Most of them don't feel a sense of peace, calm, and serenity throughout their day. I've to admit sometimes I'm the same way as them, but I've also learned a few things that helped me create a feeling of calmness much more of the time than ever before. But that comes and another topic and need to practice and they are always helpful.

D. You have to be firm with your boundaries.

When someone does something that crosses a line, make it known. You'll have to stick up for your beliefs, your time, and energy; otherwise, they will take advantage of these things.

They said setting boundary for yourself and honoring the boundaries of others is not a textbook science, but you can always learn ways to take charge of your life. Whether you want to set more transparent rules with your family or assert your space regarding strangers.


E. Find The Positive Identify what gives you more positive energies.

Specific people, TV shows, books, exercise, self-care, etc. Seek these things out often, especially when you feel like others are draining your energy. And if someone else's negative energy is compromising your happiness, and it seems no other way, still stay calm, think positive, and walk away (even if that means forever and forget them).

If you have additional remedies to boost your mood and a good mindset, please share here; thank you in advance.

That's it! I hope you enjoy this post, my beloved WA Family.

Happy Tuesday!

I LOVE YOU ALL,

Thanks,

Joyce

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Great post. I've been here a while and I can tell you, WA has caused some relationship issues. People don't understand, they don't WANT to understand or they are simply jealous because you're doing something that fulfills you. Once upon a time, I cared what people thought but one of the benefits of aging is that I realized that it is MY life and I value the opinion of VERY few at this point.

I'm not a confrontational person, so my boundary moves as I do. If I don't want to get into defending my decisions or I can see the other person just wants to express THEIR views, then I'm gone. I'm not wasting my time or energy on them.

We must always CHOOSE to have joy and a good day and some days are harder than others. 😎

~Debbi

Wow! What a wonderful sharing here, my friend, Debbi!
You are awesome and very cool!

Yes, you're right, my friend, they might be just jealous because after telling them what you do, and you're excited and happy about the outcome, and then suddenly the wave of conversation changing, haha. They're sound irritating and trying to put you down twist your beliefs.

Thank you very much for your nice comment and for stopping by. I appreciate you very much.

Best wishes to you and always,
Kind regards,
Joyce

Great post as always my friend Joyce!

I'm sorry to hear that you experienced a negative encounter with an old friend today. Unfortunately, negativity surrounds us in all aspects of life my friend.

My main source of negativity lives with us about 90% of the time, so there is no escaping!!

I find it best just to be calm, never confront (not easy at times)! And try to release positive energy all around!

I hope that the rest of your day has been positive, happy and smiley my friend!:-):-)

Oh, Wow! Thank you that you already how to handle those negative people, my friend, Nick!

A terrible way this morning, but yes, I didn't stand long with it. As it's unfair, it seems he is the one talking and talking, and he thumbs down the affiliate marketing. Anyway, I have no time with it; instead, I exit and hope I didn't see him again. But I have to be ready if ever I saw him again, my friend.

But it's not a bad day for me, my friend, when I arrive I still upset and do my research and writing about it.

So, am I still learning new things right???

Thank you so much for your kind words and kind comment, my friend, Nick! I appreciate you very, very much!

All the best to you and always, and God bless!!!
Kind regards,

Your smiley friend always,

Joyce :-) :-) :-)

Hello. My name is Tonja. Nice to meet you. I just wanted to recommend the "Serenity Prayer?" It has certainly helped me. Anyways, I hope it helps.

Hello Tonja,
Nice to meet you here; how are you, by the way? I am Joyce, and welcome to my blog today.

Yes, I will heartily be accepting that, no worries.
Thank you so much for your kind comment and for stopping by. I appreciate it much.

Kind regards and be blessed!

Thanks,
Joyce
P.S. I have a message for you.
Thank you, and God bless!

I have constant negativity nearly every day surrounding me my friend, best to not let it affect us and stay positive and happy!!

I feel sorry for your friend because he won't have you as a friend anymore.

Happy to hear that you could still do your research and writing, we all learn something new everyday hete my friend which helps us to progress!

God bless, and all the best to you too Joyce!!:-):-)

Thank you so much, my friend, Nick!

Sorry to hear that you have to avoid those that give you negativity or stay with, not to mention at all! So, no fire, only love and cares, my friend. I am avoiding him now as it causes me weak; my good mindset, I felt the want to unsettled it.

He is not a good friend anymore so goodbye!!!

Thank you so much, and be strong, happy, and positive as always.
Your friend,
Joyce

Very true Joyce. I'm always up for a good debate and to have my opinion heard, but in many occasions it just leaves me frustrated if I have been unable to convince the other person of my point of view. It is important to remember that the views held by others is as important to them as ours is to us. So probably better to actually stop the conversation and say you don't agree but you aren't going to debate it and change the subject. But I'll never learn. With my ASD, I always have to have my say!

Yes, that's very true, Geoffrey!

Thanks for your kind words; I understand, Geoff. I heard your side, and thanks for sharing here; I appreciate it much.

Haha, I have no patient in a debate. I want to give and take basis; I want to listen and understand him, but the thing is, he didn't let me talk to him, him and him. I just lost my time then.

Thank you and best wishes to you always,
Kind regards,

Joyce

Hello Geoffrey C1. My name is Tonja. I agree with most of your post. Maybe say "lets agree to disagree?" If they agree to THAT then you got them to agree with you on something. I hope that helps.

Thanks Tonja!
Sorry, Geoffrey might busy, he will be back for sure.
Thanks,
Joyce

Hi Joyce, thank you for your post. I follow the simple strategy "don't tell them, show them". When I first started with WA,I was so excited and I wanted to share it with everyone. Very quickly I learned to keep my mouth shut, as I was shocked with the misconceptions that people have about affiliate marketing. I got so tired of trying to explain so I just decided not to tell anyone and show them when I'm ready.
Thank you for sharing your tips. We will need them to stay positive in this world with so many misconceptions and misinformation.

Hello Anna,

Thank you so much for your time reading this post today. And thanks to that you like it. I appreciate your comment and for stopping by. Aww, you experienced that too. Me, I had it this morning. It was a quick talk with a friend we didn't see each other very often. I was so excited talking about online things, I don't think it's just jealousy only, but I couldn't stay long with him, so I exit nicely.

I agree with you, don't tell them, showed them.
Thanks for liking those tips too.

All the best to you and always and be blessed!

Kind regards,
Joyce


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