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In my family (much like everyone else's) there is a method to most of the madness. For my family that method has usually been call Jenny. Now, before my addiction, I didn't give myself enough worth to say no. It didn't matter that I had my life to live. I would drop everything to "help" anyone else.

Why would I put quotes around the word help. The reason I did that is because I rescued people, but didn't teach them to fix things on their own. I had become co-dependent on their dependency. When I became addicted I learned a valuable lesson about the real meaning of worth.

If they can not love and accept me when I said no then they have done nothing to earn my saying yes. Why would I share this here? That answers simple. We will help you here, but we will not rescue you. Our individual responsibility to ensure the growth of our community is to teach what we've learned, not to work for other people.

So what have I learned.

EVERYONE knows something about something.

Your theme could change once or a million times NO ONE can tell you which theme suites your desire best.

We can provide ideas but not solutions to things like niches and contents.

If you wait for success you will wait forever.

Jude P is exceptional.

Kyle and Carson are real people and have every right to say no.

The amazing members of this community deserve far more recognition than I could ever provide.

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You are very insightful Jennifer and inspiring you have wisdom that cannot be bought!

Thank you so much! I am inspired by the people here you are among those people :) You remind me to always give my best

Great points, Jennifer! Thanks for sharing.

Thank you so much for reading

Everyone here has their own special gift that only they can provide

I agree full heartedly

Great writing Jennifer. Thanks and lots of Blessings.

Thank you so much for reading :)

Jennifer, I think someone who's been rock bottom and worked their way up as you have, has a strength and wisdom that cannot be achieved any other way.

I'm proud to know you.
Blessings
Therese

Thank you so much!! I'm, not sure about the wisdom part, but thank you so much. I'm so very lucky to know you

A very thought provoking, post, Jennifer thanks for sharing your insights we can help folks out but we can not help them up in that one we are all in the same boat, for better or worse.

I see so many that want us to find a quick fix...We don't have those we just have advice from experience lol

Wow, thanks so much for the mention Jennifer :)

And you've very right - we have a saying in England that fits the bill...'you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink'. We can point people in the right direction for sure, but we can't do the work for them :)

You are an inspiration here. I just like to point that out :)

Yes, we can not enable people. They will never grow up.

I agree completely

Great Story JDunyon this community is amazing I never felt inspired by any other community ..Thanks for your post..

I agree I love it here. Thanks for stopping by and reading.

Excellent post!

Thank you for coming by and reading

You are welcome

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