Slow Down To Go Fast (Best Advice I Was Given)

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Think about the following scenario: You're driving your car, when another car behind you is moving up close. Obviously, they are stressed and want to go faster...

At the first opportunity, said car passes you - and speeds ahead trying to make up for lost time stuck behind you...

Then, several minutes later, you approach a red light. And who's in front of you?

Well, you know it of course: It was the car stressing behind you, passing you, and rushing ahead.

But now, you are both at the exact same spot - only that your journey was relaxed and, most importantly, smooth.

The Reason Why Affiliate Marketing Takes Time To Build Up

I am sure you have experienced that exact scenario multiple times already. And even if it wasn't at a red light, there were other scenarios where you caught up with someone speeding ahead - almost magically.

The truth is that there are always red lights along the journey. There are factors that simply cannot be forced or be sped up.

One of these things is building an audience around your blog. Yes, posting more helps. Yes, writing more helps. And yes... promoting your blog helps also.

But you know what...

No matter how hard you hustle, building up trust with your audience STILL takes time. You cannot skip that. This is the first red light most bloggers, affiliate marketers, and content creators face.

Slowing Down Means...

The title of this article is "Slow Down To Go Fast". I hope the example above gave you an image you won't forget.

Because slowing down was the best advice I have ever received...

I am the kind of person who wants to do everything perfectly... I want to be fully committed... I want to go ALL-IN.

Chances are, as a premium member here on WA, you are like me :D

We're all a bunch of perfectionists here, creating something impactful in our lives and the lives of others!

And while I see "hustlers" left and right, I haven't yet seen any hustler build something that lasts.

Hustlers want to go fast, they feel like everything around them is constantly stopping them...

They are the ones pushing up behind your car and racing past you. But what they don't understand is that the red stop light is waiting - and in the end you and him are at the same spot.

...To Go Fast Means

The true meaning behind "Slow Down To Go Fast" is one word: FOCUS.

Nothing is more powerful than someone working with focus... Almost magically, it makes progress come faster, and results come faster.

But how can you focus on anything when you're racing ahead, running left and right, hustling day in and day out? The answer is that you can't!

Sometimes a hustle is necessary to catch up lost time... but this is a short-term solution and most likely the quality of your work isn't as good as it can be, simply because you had to "crunch it out".

But when you focus on your core tasks, and get into a smooth flow, that's when you do your most powerful work.

So What Should You Do?

Everything that brought me results was as a consequence of me slowing down... and using FOCUS to achieve my goals.

And sadly, I have destroyed many promising projects by running from task to task, doing everything and nothing, while being completely burned out at the end of it. In those failed projects, my hustler mentality deceived me short-term with "busyness" and cheated me long-term with nothing to show for it.

If you are not making (enough) money yet with your affiliate marketing business, I want to encourage you to pick only one or two things to master. Slow down, be steady, create a smooth experience.

As a result, you will see FOCUS take over. And just like magic, you will achieve your results faster than you expected! It's hard to put in words, but when it happens to you I'm sure you will know exactly what I mean with "magic".

These are the steps I follow:

  • Work every day. This is crucial. Whether it's 30 min, 1 hour, or more. But do something every day.
  • Decide on one or two things that you want to succeed at. Ignore the rest. Is it SEO? Is it Instagram? Is it YouTube? Is it Email? Pick one, maximum two. Drop the rest.
  • Take a breath and do what you can. Appreciate the work you CAN do today, and be excited to continue tomorrow.
  • Don't beat yourself up for not doing it ALL today... or this week... or even this month.
  • Instead, focus on taking steps every day - no matter how small. Celebrate your discipline. Become smooth in what you do.
  • Find peace in knowing that you will work every day, simply one step at a time. That's how you slow down to go fast.

And when you finally have your breakthrough, come back here and let us know on WA so we can celebrate together :D

What are the things you focus on? For me it's SEO and YouTube. I would appreciate a comment from you below :)

Keep up the great work!

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Perfect advice for my moment today. Hustling for 6 months and now I'm slowing down to reflect on success so far and whether my strategy needs to pivot or I can find great advice (like yours!) here on WA to keep me going!

Hey Adam, a few years back I once read in a book: "Your business is a reflection of yourself." And this really stuck with me. Is my business chaotic? Is it struggling? Is it stressful? Whatever it is, it's only a reflection of what's going on inside of me.

It's a hard pill to swallow to be DIRECTLY responsible for what's going on inside our business, but that's the reality of entrepreneurship (especially solo entrepreneurs of course).

Find your daily routine, even if you think it's small it will compound over the coming months - but only if done daily. I highly suggest the book "The Slight Edge", I am sure you will love it!

Cheers and keep in touch,
James

P.S.: Consider joining our group chat on discord, we're all in the same process and help each other build a profitable online business: https://discord.gg/yW3EnWM

Words cannot speak to how thoughtful this is. I took time to reflect and see that the business will move only if I keep working to move it forward. Something will eventually budge.

I just got "The Slight Edge" and jumped onto discord!

Awesome Adam! When you start reading the book let me know your thoughts. I also left you a message in the group chat. Have a great weekend and looking forward to talking more with you soon!

Great analogy James, you're right. Thanks!

Thanks for your comment Kaju! Glad to hear you agree with the analogy :)

Makes great sense:)

Great post and great advice! Keep it up.
Joe

Thank you Joe, glad you liked it :)

This post fits me perfectly. It makes so much sense and this image ( the car passing and then at the stop sign) will help me “focus” on so many other ways in my life besides just WA. My Mom always would say...”Always in a hurry...and going no where”. I have a hunch this is exactly what she meant by that.
Michelle

Hey Michelle, thank you for your comment! Yes, that was it for me too! "Always in a hurry and going nowhere", well said :D

Social media should help us all go forward James.

Derek

I can definitely see the power in Social Media!

I work on Instagram and creating good content that my future readers will love (I hope) ^_^

Thanks for your comment, IG is definitely a great platform!

This is a very powerful message and I hope many members read it.
Too many people have a get rich quick mentality and aren’t prepared to work methodically at building their business.
I think the key point is to do something every day to keep making steady progress towards achieving your goals

Thanks Dave! Daily actions are so powerful.

That's a very interesting way of looking at things. Certainly something to think about.

Hi Darren, thanks for your comment! It's not like my usual "how-to" articles but I'm glad it got you thinking about it nevertheless :D

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