What do you REALLY want?
What are some of the things you would like to have in your life? Maybe there are some things you are planning to have or do once you make enough money with your online activities with WA?
A couple of days ago I was reminded of an exercise I did last year, when it came up in a similar way as part of a course I am doing. I found it to be very helpful, even the second time around and would like to share it with you, if you are open to it.
I would like to invite you to make a list of the things you want. Just write freely including any- and everything that comes up.
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Some of us may feel we do not have a right to want, or may not allow ourselves to acknowledge these wants because of past experiences, teachings, morals - whatever. But still I invite you to write it down.
Next have a look at your list and make another list. For each WANT on the first list write down what is stopping you from having or doing it. Be honest with yourself. This is FOR and about YOU; there is no wrong or right
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Thirdly ask yourself, if you really want this thing and are allowing something to stop you from getting it
1. How much do you REALLY want it?
2. What will it give you when you have it, how will you feel, how will your life be different?
3. If you say for example that it will make you happier, I would like to ask, why do you have to wait for that to happen in order to be happy? Why not be happy NOW, right now?
I did a similar exercise to this one last year when I was going through a difficult time in my life. It made SUCH a huge difference to me as I realised that I WAS happy and that my happiness did not depend on anything or anyone. It also made me realise that often times the reason I gave myself for not doing something or having something was really just an excuse for not looking deeper at what it was I REALLY wanted.
If you get something from it , I will be very grateful. If you would like to know more about this exercise please feel free to PM me.
Wishing us all well
Warm and sunny greetings
Vee
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thank you; i found it really helpful to refocus on what is really important, what I really want, what is stopping me from having those things only to realise it all comes down to wanting to be happy and I am already there, and already have what I want!!
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Thanks for a helpful post, Valina.
welcome. thanks for reading
You're very welcome, Valina. thanks.