Can we talk? what causes you to want to converse?
Can we talk?
What causes you to want to converse with someone?
Do you think, "I would like to converse with this person because of what?"
- This person seems interesting.
- They seem to have something of Value to offer.
- They don't seem to be trying to "Get-Me" with alliterative motives.
- They don't waste my time with "Small-Talk" or "Chit-Chat".
When you consume some good content, do you wonder if they are really just trying to "Get-You"?
Is a mutually beneficial reciprocity relationship a possible, desirable result?
What do you say when someone says to you: "How are you?" Does that mean they want to converse but they don't have a topic? To control the topic of conversation, what should you reply? In most cases, their favorite topic is their-self which is great if you want to learn about them.
Do "Donation Request" work?
Is it more Valuable to discover the Solution to a known Problem or to discover the Solution to a Problem
that you were unaware you had?
When you find someone that you want to converse with, what format do you prefer… email, phone, Skype or what? I like Skype because the Text-Replies are immediate & you have to choice of converting to voice. Instead of just asking for their Name & Email, maybe we should also ask for their Skype-Username.
Do you find any of this interesting & can you elaborate on it? Maybe we could converse. Maybe we could form a group. Would that be something of interest?
Frequently, I get "Contact-Request" on Skype but if I don't know who they are or anything about them, I don't accept their request (because of spammers). It's best to add a comment to identify yourself & why you want to make contact. Say something like: "I read you post & would like to converse".
If you want to connect with me on Skype, my Skype user-name is: WallyK
Can we talk?