Giving Advice
Why is it that people don't take advice, even good advice generally speaking? As you may know, there are some people who are talented in the area of giving useful advice free and with love, still, they find out that their advice is not being accepted. How about you, do you like to take and give advice?
Are There Real Reasons?
I believe that one of the reasons why people don't take advice is because of a lack of humility, self-centeredness, stubbornness, mostly among the young ones, and fear of what others will think about you. Am I making sense?
I want to submit to us that as far as life is concerned that we are like students regardless of our status. In order, for us to experience a change in any area of life we will need to see certain things in a different way. We need to have an open mind.
Are There Benefits?
There are benefits in taking and giving wise advice. For instance, good advice can help one change what is not working well, either in your business, job, family, group, and so forth. Because it is not beneficial to stick to doing things in our own way even when the results are not what they should be.
Let us discuss, what are some of the reasons why people including me and you don't like to take advice? You can imagine the attitude of spouses, children to parents, workers to supervisors, and so forth. Do you have any example of any good or bad advice given to you at any point in your life that turned up to be a disaster?
I will greatly appreciate your opinion and advice.
Thanks so much for your time and participation!
I understand, but I disagree with that, sorry. I don't think we should advise another person. We can listen to other people and ask questions to understand their position, but it is not our task to judge them and tell them what to do.
However, I agree that being open is very important.
Regarding the benefits, I wouldn't use "taking and giving wise advice" instead of saying it is essential to listen to other people, link to other people because we become injured in human relationships. We can heal in human relationships too. So community and honest interpersonal connections are significant to cure ourselves and get inspiration from other people in every area of our lives. Still,l probably talk about the same things, but we use different words.
I believe in coequal relationships; we can develop just in that type of relationship.
Thank you very much for your post; it is good, thought-provoking writing.
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So thank you so much for your honest contribution to this important topic.
Advice is simply what it is--a rendering of our opinion on how to do things! People generally either don't care, or simply want to handle things their own way! Sometimes they come out on top, and sometimes they don't, but then, that is the way of the world, it seems!
Jeff
Thanks, so much for your contribution.
From experience some folks don't
No matter how you try.
But comes a time they want.
Thank you.
Lula
Once again, thanks!
