Today I filed for Divorce! Why I am happy ?

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Today I filed for divorce!

How do I feel about that? LIBERATED!


I have heard some people feel sad over filing for divorce as it is a sign of a failure of the marriage.

I get that but for me, I am on a mission this year.

I want a clean start for the future I am creating for myself and my kids.

Filing for divorce is all part of my plan to be focused on my goals for this year as I am

REMAIN POSITIVE

If any of you are in a similar position, try and see it as a positive and channel that into your future. Let go of negatively if you have any.

In my earlier blogs of this new year I wrote about momentum and how it can create opportunities.

My mental strength now is very strong, 2 years ago when I first started in WA. I was an entirely different person.

WA has played a very big part in the rebuilding process.

It is vital you remain with a positive outlook and blank out negativity.

I am taking the positive outlook on my divorce as my soon to be ex wife and I are now very good friend and speak on a regular basis.

We both have partners and I can’t remember the romantic side of our relationship or miss it.

It was not always like that and things were hostile for a time but one day I just let go of the bitterness and hate and she followed.

Soon I felt more relaxed and happier and was able to move on.

Things have been falling into place ever since do I wanted to share this experience and my feelings with you as I am big on the subject of momentum and things falling into place at the moment.

Forgiveness can be a liberating experience and can lead to good things happening.


Life’s to short to bear grudges.












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Well, all you can do is move forward in life.

It is weird how after a time you forget about the positive, romantic side of a relationship after things fall apart. I guess that is a built in survival mechanism.

I wish you an extremely productive, happy and successful 2019.

Thankyou Sondra and I wish the same for you.

It's a clean slate and the rest will be determined by you...much luck and success in the coming year.

Thank you and the same for you.

Thanks to your blog I have a better outlook and more appreciative of good things that come out of change and uncertain times.

I am glad sharing my experiences have helped

Forgiveness is for YOU not the other person. I'm glad that you can remain friends.

Been there, done that and know how it feels. Sometimes there are better things in wait for you but you just didn't know it.

Even though you are liberated from a relation there are the Kids that keep you united though out the rest of your life. You still share there genies and there love hold that near to your heart and you will be fine.

always a better way
Linda

Hi Linda

We still go out as a family when she visits as she lives in different country because of work, I kept the kids.

The kids enjoy it and we are always united for them.

Best wishes

Darren

That's the way it should be, It will be hard at times, to make that transit, but it seems you have balanced it out always keep that in mind and the kids will do fine.
always a better way
Linda

I was once in your situation and yes, it gets better when you let go. I have since remarried and happy now. Sometimes we need to detox off people and things to be able to breathe properly. I had to do this to my own mum once :) another story lol

Hi

I’ve done it to my dad a few times ! Lol

There's that lightness and freedom that comes from true forgiveness that nothing else can beat. Wow. Sorry to hear of the divorce but glad to know that you all have found a way to be friends.

Hi Russell

It’s a Shame yes but we are both happy and still value our friendship.

It doesn’t normally turn out like this for many separated couples I guess

That's so true and I can identify with that because I to am divorced and my ex and I get along much better now than when we were married.

Good for you -- moving on; doing what you have to; keeping up a good attitude. I think you will be fine.

Thankyou

Forgiveness is a beautiful thing eh? Proud of you. Cheers AJ

Thankyou

Great decision buddy! I know over the time you both were separated, you did it on your own. Now you have adjusted. The months have given you 'strength' of independence.

That is power Darren. Attachment to her was, to me, weakening your 'being' Darren. You always had the strength and you just know it. Nobody can give it to you , you got it by yourself.

I am freakin' proud of you! You go young man and build your empire. You are all power! With your supportive kids and people here who love you, you have everything!

NOW GO YOUNG MAN, THE SKIES THE LIMIT!


frank

Thankyou Frank

I totally agree and you can now hold me accountable!

Hope your well my friend

Yes I am my friend, I know you are!

Forward and upward! Make your kids proud!

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