Today I filed for Divorce! Why I am happy ?

Last Update: January 23, 2019

Today I filed for divorce!

How do I feel about that? LIBERATED!


I have heard some people feel sad over filing for divorce as it is a sign of a failure of the marriage.

I get that but for me, I am on a mission this year.

I want a clean start for the future I am creating for myself and my kids.

Filing for divorce is all part of my plan to be focused on my goals for this year as I am

REMAIN POSITIVE

If any of you are in a similar position, try and see it as a positive and channel that into your future. Let go of negatively if you have any.

In my earlier blogs of this new year I wrote about momentum and how it can create opportunities.

My mental strength now is very strong, 2 years ago when I first started in WA. I was an entirely different person.

WA has played a very big part in the rebuilding process.

It is vital you remain with a positive outlook and blank out negativity.

I am taking the positive outlook on my divorce as my soon to be ex wife and I are now very good friend and speak on a regular basis.

We both have partners and I can’t remember the romantic side of our relationship or miss it.

It was not always like that and things were hostile for a time but one day I just let go of the bitterness and hate and she followed.

Soon I felt more relaxed and happier and was able to move on.

Things have been falling into place ever since do I wanted to share this experience and my feelings with you as I am big on the subject of momentum and things falling into place at the moment.

Forgiveness can be a liberating experience and can lead to good things happening.


Life’s to short to bear grudges.












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SnazzyIT Premium
I was once in your situation and yes, it gets better when you let go. I have since remarried and happy now. Sometimes we need to detox off people and things to be able to breathe properly. I had to do this to my own mum once :) another story lol
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dalwhu Premium
Hi

I’ve done it to my dad a few times ! Lol
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RussellO1 Premium
There's that lightness and freedom that comes from true forgiveness that nothing else can beat. Wow. Sorry to hear of the divorce but glad to know that you all have found a way to be friends.
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dalwhu Premium
Hi Russell

It’s a Shame yes but we are both happy and still value our friendship.

It doesn’t normally turn out like this for many separated couples I guess
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RussellO1 Premium
That's so true and I can identify with that because I to am divorced and my ex and I get along much better now than when we were married.
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FKelso Premium
Good for you -- moving on; doing what you have to; keeping up a good attitude. I think you will be fine.
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dalwhu Premium
Thankyou
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jillxyz Premium
Forgiveness is a beautiful thing eh? Proud of you. Cheers AJ
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dalwhu Premium
Thankyou
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1signbanner Premium
Great decision buddy! I know over the time you both were separated, you did it on your own. Now you have adjusted. The months have given you 'strength' of independence.

That is power Darren. Attachment to her was, to me, weakening your 'being' Darren. You always had the strength and you just know it. Nobody can give it to you , you got it by yourself.

I am freakin' proud of you! You go young man and build your empire. You are all power! With your supportive kids and people here who love you, you have everything!

NOW GO YOUNG MAN, THE SKIES THE LIMIT!


frank
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dalwhu Premium
Thankyou Frank

I totally agree and you can now hold me accountable!

Hope your well my friend
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1signbanner Premium
Yes I am my friend, I know you are!

Forward and upward! Make your kids proud!
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