The Resilience Of Children

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It's difficult when we have to discipline a child, but definitely sometimes necessary, especially in situations where they could potentially harm themselves or others.


Trouble is, we don't always get a good reaction...


There are kids who, for one reason or another, have a lot of anger beneath the surface, and in many cases, not too far beneath.


It can easily broil over at the least provocation.


I was involved in such a situation recently, and I'll tell you, some kids can really hold a grudge!


A few days later, after seeing me walk through his class, he jumped up out of his seat and walked toward me. I thought he was going to apologize and ask for a hug, so I threw open my arms, only to have him continue his glare of the past few days, and walk defiantly past me.


"Not ready yet." I thought, shaking my head.


He kept up the nasty looks for nearly a week.


Today he noticed a friend of his talking to me in my office, and he casually strolled in. Noticing a Dunkin' Donuts box on one of the tables, he asked if he could have a donut. Sadly, I had to inform him that the donuts belonged to another teacher.


"But," I said, "If they were mine, I would have been happy to share one with you."


He looked at me for a moment, then walked out of my office.


The anger was gone.


Kids are pretty resilient. It just takes a little longer for some than for others.

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Kids are something..My grandson is a two year old with an attitude - terrible twos if you will - and he will get caught doing something so he cries and storms off...Less than 2 minutes later he comes back and wants a hug and all is forgiven...If only...

Love it...it's called - in my country - 'killing with kindness'. Touch love as well.
M

Good things come to those who wait, Michelle. :)

Every time, Rick :)
M

:)

HI Rick, you nailed the balance between necessary disciple and putting the child's needs first! Lucky kid to have a teacher like you, Sue :)

Thanks, Sue. :)

I always say that, Sue!:))

great observation---we react this way for 2 reasons---this is what children observe their parents behavior or it's just part of their natural behavior pattern to take longer to get over the hurt feelings

Thanks for your comments, Davida. :)

A great example of brilliance of a teacher, Rick...
" kill 'em with kindness" ..:))

Time takes care of a lot of things. :))

Not just time, Rick... People, too.:))

Yes. :))

Hey Rick ;)

What was his reason for holding a grudge?

I don't think he liked being disciplined.

They can act in the darndest ways cant they Rick!

Like Art Linkletter used to say, Mike...

Some adults are the same way

They never grew up! :)

Kids these days are pretty smart!

Sometimes a little too smart, Thomas.

Yes, we should be like children to make this world better to live in.

It's good to always keep a bit of the kid in us, Jimmy.

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