To Much Talk, Not Enough Doing

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If you say that you haven't done more talking than doing at one point in your life, then you are a liar. You are lying to yourself. You are trying to make yourself feel better about yourself, because you fear what may happen if you tell yourself the truth. You are afraid if you tell anyone, your credibility will be shot.

Do you want to fix certain issues that you may be having in your life, or do you want to stay stuck in the same position like a little no one for the rest of your life?

"I am not a no one Chris! I am somebody! I have done this, this, and that!" That is cool, but you are a no one, you are just another person in this world, you haven't done anything significant enough to make yourself happy, otherwise you wouldn't be complaining about your life sucks this or that. Maybe you are telling yourself and others, "I am a victim of the system." Please shut up, and realize the only person victimizing you, is you when it comes to life.

(NOTE: I understand certain circumstances where it's against a person's will.)

This does not apply to someone who actually gets off their butt every morning and works hard toward an ultimate goal, this applies to those of you who are close minded, you complain about your job, your current living situation, but you make no attempt to go out and find a better job, and improve you living situation. It's not only about getting a job, it's about doing what you have to do to get the job of your dreams. Such as going to college or getting a certificate in a certain specialty.

Many of you may tell me that it cost too much, but that is only an excuse. It is so easy to go to college, that I can't even laugh when I hear it anymore. It is sickening. You know darn well, if your situation is that bad, then you can get student aid. For those of you who do qualify, you can get student loans. It is easier than ever, even if you have the worst credit known to man! I know folks who have racked up over $170,000 in student loans, but those student loans landed them in careers that pay 6+ figures a year..

You don't have an excuse to fail in life. You are going to fail in life, because you tell yourself that you are. Get off your butt and go out and show the world that you are somebody. Work your butt off, improve your situation. Have that 'can do' attitude.

A common saying that hold true to this day is, " those who say they can, usually can, and those who say they can't, usually can't."

So once again, be the person who says they can, be the person that changes your future, and don't fall into the rut of "i am a victim, so listen to me wine like a little twat."

Your opinion may differ. The issue however is, these are the facts. These are opinions, just the facts. If you don't like the facts, then this is probably for you. Get out and stop being lazy.

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I agree with what you said. My personal motto is that "successful people take action".

I have heard that once or twice ;]

you are only going to get what you put into it so only you can change it all the best

Tough love baby! We have to use it on ourselves. I couldn't agree more. If I hear myself complain more than once I know it's too damn much! -Alexx

Yes we all make choices and you are also right that there are exceptions. I believe it all starts with education from a very young age. Teach the kids well and we all will prosper.

Yup, I have to agree with you Chris. Keep up those great posts, love to read you. :)

In general, I agree with your thoughts here. Unfortunately, there are many people who never hear this kind of message until their thoughts have already been trained to tell them that they are a failure or are in situations that make it very hard to find their way out. Yet, a few do escape those kinds of traps, so it is possible.

I'm a college math tutor part-time and I see the "I can't do it" thought process every day. Granted, some never will be good in math, no matter what they do, but that doesn't mean they can't achieve in some other area. They just need the opportunity and help to find that area.

WA can be an excellent method for some to escape the financial rut they have fallen into. Not everyone will achieve it here but, as you are doing here, we need to keep encouraging and motivating those who decide this is the way for them. "Doing" is the key in this business - along with not giving up.

I completely agree Allyn. I want to people to realize that if they continue to try, they will find their place in life, and they can become successful within any life endeavor.

Math certainly isn't everyone's strong suit, but they can become mediocre at least.

Everyone has a place for success, they just need to change their attitudes, and go for it!

Wealthy Affiliate is a place where anyone can become successful if the realize that they need to actually dedicate. It is unfortunate that no matter how many times we explain to some people, they just don't listen. Why don't they listen? They don't listen because their minds aren't in the right place. The have that "I can't" or that "the system failed me" attitude because they didn't make any money after a week...

We just need to continue educating and motivating those who know they can and will.

We are each in control of our own destiny. If we want something and we work for it we will be able to achieve it!

Exactly! It is all too often overlooked...

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