Dealing With It

Last Update: October 25, 2018

Hello evryone,

Have not been around lately and apologize for that and may not be able to interact with you all as much as i want.

My father in law has taken ill and we had to put him a nursing home. It is absolutley amazing the BS and rhetoric you have to go through to give him the proper care that this man deserves.

He was a declamated member of our armed forces and trying to get him decent help is deplorable. Going through the medicaid process is just nightmarish.

This man deserves more and is not getting it. My mother in law is at her wits end afraid of losing everything the two of them worked for their entire lives.

Anyway i guess i just needed someone to vent to, so who better to go to is my other family,

Wealthy Affiliate. Thank you all for being there for each and every one of us. I knew i could come here and vent and get some things off my chest.

I feel much better now and thank you all once again, be back here and there.

Bless you all,

Robert


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Sherion Premium
I went through the same thing 9 years ago with my mom. I took her out of a nursing home. With the help of my brother and two sons we took care of her until she died. It can not be done by everyone. I had enough saved up to do this for a year. She was 95 when she died. I do know it is a nightmare and what I have already done is put all my assets in my name and my sons. We are co-owners of it all. The state here in NM will take everything a persons has if they end up on medicaid. They don't take it from a living survivor but the state has rights to go after when the survivor dies. I understand all that you are going through and my prayers are with you.
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chief14nj Premium
thank you for your kind words
bless you
Robert
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rubanzema Premium
Keep faith. I wish you all the best.
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Nancy29 Premium
Please hang in there and be the advocate he and your mother in law need. The healthcare system is deplorable, and requires a strong, persistent effort; a bit like Carson and Kyle's law suit experience. I'm praying for you.
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chief14nj Premium
Thank you, for your strength
Robert
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McWord Premium
I'm sorry to hear of the travails you're going through Robert. Wading through the governmental hogwash is, indeed, nightmarish! Wishing your father in law and you all the best at this time!!

Take care, my friend.

mitch
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chief14nj Premium
Thanks Mitch, we will prevail
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mcgibbonc Premium
I hope everything works out for the best.

Carol
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chief14nj Premium
Thank you Carol, we will get through this
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