What We Can't Change No Matter What
If your are still alive there is one thing your cannot change.
It affects our lives and can make us or destroy us.
The thing that we can not stop or control is like growing old.
It is something we have no say in it because it is going to happen.
The thing we cannot stop is
Everything is going to change.
We are going to grow older and change.
We are going to learn things and change.
We are going to meet people and change.
Change is coming your cannot stop it.
The secret is to control the change.
Decide what the change will be.
If there are things your want to learn, change it by going through the training.
If your website is not working change it by finding out why and change it.
If your life is not going how it should find out why and change it.
Making the same choices, doing the same thing, not changing things and expecting things to be different does not work.
OUR LIVES ONLY CHANGE WHEN WE CHANGEWe are moving towards a New Year and it is a perfect time to sit and look at changes your want to make.
Every year I make a list of things I want to change and pick out the easiest one and work on it first. It is amazing what your can accomplish by making a list and working on it one thing at a time. This is not anything like New Years Resolution. It is my game plan for the year to come. It is not goal setting it is taking control of the changes I want in my like.
So if your cannot stop change, your need to learn how to make the changes be the ones your want.
You can make the changes your need to get where your want to be.
Sit and make a list of what your want to change. Start with the easiest one and work on your list one by one. You will be amazed what it does. It is much better than sitting and hoping things get better.
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Yes, a good point on change. Make it a change for the better, not worse. You say we can't stop growing older, but we can control the results. A list is a great place to start because it is like a map - going from here to finishing there. Success is achieved not by accident, but by will.
Ken
Yep Change is inevitable, we might as well embrace it and open our minds to new adventures and possibilities. Great post .
More words of wisdom my friend.
I should call you "Man on the Mountain."
Awesome! Just Awesome!
Frank
We can adjust to that remember the 1 hour long show.
"Twin Peaks?" You now have just become a popular show.
We have options Bo.
Frank =)
Change is inevitable. Even if you lock yourself inside a bunker, things are going to change. The world goes through cycles of birth and death and birth again. The only thing you can control is how you react to change. If you want something, chances are you will have to change something to get it. et goals and go after the change you want. That is exactly how you should do it. Good post!
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I appreciate this Bo. I believe in making change and not letting other people dictate my destiny. And you are right. Making a list of what you want to change and doing it one by one is the best way. Thank you for the post
Steve
I am like you I do not like letting someone else decide what my future will be like.
You got that right Bo! Have a great day buddy
You got that right Bo! Have a great day buddy