Success Or Failure That Is Your Choice To Make

Last Update: November 16, 2019



Regardless if you are a Newbie or been here in Wealthy Affilaite for a while longer all can read and relate to this as what you do in life here in WA relates to you.

Along our journey we come to a point for whatever reasons that we seem to struggle and one of the biggest causes is due to lack of money.

We get to a certain stage where we start to look elsewhere for work on meeting not only to pay the bills and life activities but to the point where we are starting to seek some form of Financial Freedom that has held up back over the years.

You see this as your answer to your despair and go click and join some of these so-called awesome programs only to find you have been ripped off and now are in a worst financial situation than before you started.

This is one of the major problems in the online world that has given affiliate marketing a bad name,for some they start to develope that bad attitude whenever they seak anything online along to find out it is some sor of scam

So many try to go online and seek that quick fix money in the back system but only to find it a scam or badly given ideas that leads only to failure.or discouragement.

For some they just plain give up, for others they continue to find something that will ease their

financial burden but also to gain that opportunty towards financial freedom.

But also your own attitude in how you react can be a major blow in seeking the success you were looking for (see my post on this https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/apache1/blog/worst-day-ever-you-sure )

It is the general struggle many face when wanting to start an online business of their own and some may find partial success, stay in limbo or given up & failed in the process.

Here are some reasons for their situations

Note!

Aside from the online aspects much of this can also apply to your life in general as well.

Reason No 1.

You got scammed and most likely lost money, feel bad and angry.

So what choices do you have availables:

Choice No 1:

It’s only a Dream not a reality at least that you think, that is why you complain that it's impossible to earn money online and give up.

Choise No 2:

Whinge, whine and blame everyone else for your failure(s) in life and continue to live in a limbo world where nothing exciting happens in your life. Blah, Blah, Blah, over and over again. (Seen the movie Ground Hog Day?)

Choise No 3:

Realize that you just learned some valuable hard lessons in life and to succeed you know you need to do the ground work, put in some elbow grease in order to be successful, pick yourself off the floor, change your attitude and start again with a positive attitude and improved strategy plan.

Accept that you may need some outside help in order to learn more to get you going forward to your future success.


Reason No 2.

You start an online business but not sure where to start.

You go on the internet looking all over the place feeling more confused that when you started on what to do.

You feel bad and angry for not getting the answers you want.

Here you have some choices:

Refer to Answer No 1:

Or

Refer to Answer No 2:

Or

Refer to Answer No 3:


Reason No 3.

You managed to find something on the internet that's helps you start your online business but you need to create a website to be successful.

You look around, don’t get much support or help from the programs you paid for.

Also you get lost with all the technical terminologies, lose your train of thought, feel this is too much to handle and stall to the point that nothing is being done and you are not getting anywhere.

Here you have some choices:

Refer to Answer No 1:

Or

Refer to Answer No 2:

Or

Refer to Answer No 3:

Can you see a pattern forming here with your choices?

Not much different to anything else in life.

You can choose to give up or take positive action and go forward unless you enjoy being in limbo land.

So remind yourself, why you came to Wealthy Affiliate in the first place.

What were your goals?

Why did you state those goals in particular,

What are you going to do to achieve what you stated.

Ask yourself again is your plan to be the first or second choice with the answers given above

Or

Is your plan to go forward and in doing so are you prepared to put in that extra elbow grease, ask questions if and where you need too, go through the lessons even if you have to go over it again.


Paying it Forward

If someone asks a question that you may have asked yourself when you first started why not give them a helping hand as you got yours and answer them. There is a simple term that is used here in Wealthy Affiliate,

That is why it’s called Paying it Forward

Remember choices 1 & 2? They are so easy to take and accept.

Sure choice 3 may make you work a bit, perhaps you may need to think a bit more than you have before or have been used to.

When you apply all the training you are given here in Wealthy Affiliate the end result becomes a positive & very important aspect in your life.


But I fell

Ok you fell along the way so what is the issue that stop’s you from getting up?

Yes there may be times where you fall down but guess what?

You have an opportunity to get up again and continue if you fall again guess what




Get up again and continue and when you have had enough of the falling and understand what is causing you to fall then you have the makings of a Successful Online Entrepreneur in whatever Niche you have chosen to do.


Why?

Because of your efforts to strive forward and your determination to succeed made you a better and successful person not just as an online marketer but also as a person.

You are worth more than you realize, YOU are better than you realize, seize the moment you have now and go forward.

So start to believe in yourself and in all you do,

Enjoy all that you do

Love what you do and do what you love.


Here is an affirmation you can make

Today is My Tomorrow

It is up to me to Shape it and take control

I make the choices each day on how I want it to be

Because I AM




Carpe Diem meaning Seize the moment

In Love and Light

Namaste

Andre

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Tirolith Premium
“Negative People never go the Extra Mile so you will find it will not be crowded on the road going forward for those who are positives.” Tom Short.

“Worry is negative with out Positive Action to Solve it.” Tom Short.

“Success is only one choice away,,, Yours.” Tom Short.

“Turn your dreams into action and they will become a success.” Tom Short.

Tom.
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Thanks, Tom great quotes

Have a great week ahead
Andre
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JeffreyBrown Premium
Andre, I especially like that Chinese proverb about Failure only occurring when we don't get up--that is all too true! Fantastic post!

Jeff
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Thank you Jeff yes it is a great proverb. Might I also take this time to thank you for your added support along to way.

Noticed and appreciated.

Andre
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JeffreyBrown Premium
Thank you Andre--your posts are appreciated!

Jeff
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EdwinBernard Premium
Hi Andre,

You are spot on with your analysis why people fail. There are many reasons like you outlined. But I'd like to return to your May 6th article where you stressed that ones attitude is what governs success of failure.

Bad things happen. Even to those who are successful. It is how one approaches these challenges that distinguishes the outcome. Victory of Defeat.

Thanks once again for a very thought provoking post that we all need to hear.

Cheers.

Edwin
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Thank you once more Edwin yes attitude as I mentioned in my reply to you is everything.

Even the attitude in falling down having a bad or negative attitude can blame others and everything else while having a positive attitude will recognize the mistakes or errors and take that leap forward to learn from them and become better than before.
Andre
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Twack Premium
Great post Andre and one that hopefully many will take heed of the advice contained within. The beauty of Wealthy Affiliate is that there are many here who are happy to help those who have fallen or who are falling.
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Thank you Twack and you are just one of those who give great support to those in need. Keep being you many will prosper from listening to what you offer here.
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Twack Premium
As always Andre, you are very kind. I've had so much help over the years, in all aspects of my life. It's right to give back whenever we can, in whatever way we can.
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apache1 Premium
In true fashion of paying it forward and we have learned so much here. Have a great weekend and keep going forward
Andre
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Twack Premium
Likewise Andre.
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Cheers
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Cinderella7 Premium
Excellent post Andre. We have to pick ourselves back up and forge ahead.
~ Marijana
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Thank you, Marijana and yes only we can go forward some may help us up but it is up to us to continue to stand and take that next step forward.
Andre
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Cinderella7 Premium
You’re absolutely right
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As are you keep going forward and enjoy all you do in life both here and elsewhere.
Andre
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