So what choices do you have available

byapache1

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Updated 5 years ago

This will be short and to the point no fluff just a reality check

This is mainly focused for the Newbie’s but also those who may have been here a bit longer can and should take note.

There comes a time when we are struggling in life (mostly because of money or lack of) that we feel there has to be a better option.

So many look to the internet for that better opportunity and see all these amazing and fantastic options where we can earn some much money online pretty much with the click of a button.

You see this as your answer to your despair, go, click, join some of these so-called awesome programs only to find you have been ripped off, and now are in a worst financial situation than before you started.

This is one of the major problems in the online world that has given affiliate marketing a bad name for some.

In addition, your own attitude in how you react can be a major blow in seeking the success you were looking for (see my post on this https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/apache1/blog/worst-day-ever-you-sure)

It is the general struggle many face when wanting to start an online business of their own and some may find partial success, stay in limbo or given up & failed in the process.

Here are just some or the main reasons for their situation

Note!

Aside from the online aspects, much of this can also apply to your life in general as well.

Reason No one.

You got scammed and most likely lost money, feel bad and angry.

So what choices do you have available:

Answer No 1:

It is only a Dream not a reality at least that is what your thought and created in your mind, which is why you complain that it is impossible to earn money online and give up.

Answer No 2:

Whinge, whine, blame everyone else for your failure in life, and continue to live in a limbo world where nothing exciting happens in your life. Blah, Blah, Blah, over and over again. (Seen the movie Ground Hog Day?)

Answer No 3:

Realize that you just learned some valuable hard lessons in life and to succeed you know you need to do the ground work, put in some elbow grease in order to be successful, pick yourself off the floor, change your attitude and start again with a positive attitude and improved strategy plan.

Accept that you may need some outside help in order to learn more to get you going forward to your future success.

Reason No two.

You start an online business but not sure where to start.

You go on the internet looking all over the place feeling more confused that when you started on what to do.

You feel bad and angry for not getting the answers you want.

Here you have some choices:

Refer to Answer No 1:

Or

Refer to Answer No 2:

Or

Refer to Answer No 3:

Reason No three.

You managed to find something on the internet that helps you start your online business but you need to do this or that and perhaps create a website to be successful.

You look around, but do not get much support or help from the programs you paid for before.

Also you get lost with all the technical terminologies, lose your train of thought, feel this is too much to handle and stall to the point that nothing is being done and you are not getting anywhere.

Here you have some choices:

Refer to Answer No 1:

Or

Refer to Answer No 2:

Or

Refer to Answer No 3:

Can you see a pattern forming here with your choices?

Not much different to anything else in life.

You can choose to give up or take positive action and go forward unless you enjoy being in limbo land.

So remind yourself, why you came to Wealthy Affiliate in the first place.

What were your goals?

Why did you state those goals in particular?

What are you going to do to achieve what you stated?

Ask yourself again is your plan to be the first or second choice with the answers given above

Or

Is your plan to go forward and in doing so are you prepared to put in that extra elbow grease, ask questions if and where you need too, go through the lessons even if you have to go over it again.

Paying it Forward

If someone asks a question that, you may have asked yourself when you first started why not give them a helping hand as you got yours and answer them. There is a simple term that is used here in Wealthy Affiliate,

That is why it is called Paying it Forward

Remember choices 1 & 2? They are so easy to take and accept.

Sure choice 3 may make you work a bit, perhaps you may need to think a bit more than you have before or have been used to.

When you apply all the training, you are given here in Wealthy Affiliate the result becomes a positive & very important aspect in your life.

But I fell

Oh Poor baby wow do you think your friends and family if you fell and failed online?

This just give them an added excuse to put you further down for their own satisfaction.

And if you listen to that crap they give you. The chances of staying down is quite high.

Ok you fell along the way so what is the issue that stop’s you from getting up?

Yes, there may be times where you fall down but guess what?

You have an opportunity to get up again and continue if you fall again guess what

Get up again and continue and when you have had enough of the falling and understand what is causing you to fall then you have the makings of a Successful Online Entrepreneur in whatever Niche you have chosen to do.

Why?

Because of your efforts to strive forward and your determination to succeed made you a better and successful person not just as an online marketer but also as a person.

YOU are worth more than you may realize.

YOU are better than you realize.

YOU are worth it.

So seize the moment you have now and go forward.

Start to believe in yourself and in all you do,

Enjoy all that you do

Love what you do and do what you love.

Here is an affirmation you can make

Today is My Tomorrow

It is up to me to Shape it and take control

I make the choices each day on how I want it to be

Because I AM

Carpe Diem (Seize the moment).

To your success, because YOU matter.

Namaste

Andre